Please consider that the main reason you do most of the things you do as a JW (including not speaking to one who has left) is because there are about a dozen men in Brooklyn demanding that you obey their rules. They claim special authority ; that they were appointed by God as the Faithful & Discreet Slave. In fact , there is NO basis or proof for this claim. Only the constant repitition that it is true. There is plenty of proof offered on this board that even if that parable was to have a fulfillment, it would not be until 'the day and hour' that Jesus spoke of in Mt 24. Please read it in context. It is not Jehovah who is telling family members to split. It is this group of men who have appointed themselves as your master. Even if they were the F&D 'slave', have you ever heard of a slave demanding obedience to his rules?
I've been where you are. And my mother said to me---'I can't believe you are questioning Jehovah'. It is the Governing Body I question. Not the same thing.
Please take a close look at the whole shunning, DF, reinstatement procedure just reading the Bible with the
Blindersoff