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just want to know if it is normal practice for the elder giving your wedding talk to ask you and your partner if youve had sex, about 1 week before youre due to get married?.
happened to us, and we were f'in shocked!.
haha lmao
there was one couple who live south of where i am (about 30 miles) and she got engaged and married within 6 months, 5 months later a 8lb-something baby was born! lol.! they didnt get dis-fellowshit for that tho.
every day im so happy im out of that doo doo.
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just want to know if it is normal practice for the elder giving your wedding talk to ask you and your partner if youve had sex, about 1 week before youre due to get married?.
happened to us, and we were f'in shocked!.
the jw's are nosey people.
I just said "no"
Lol. if only they knew.
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just want to know if it is normal practice for the elder giving your wedding talk to ask you and your partner if youve had sex, about 1 week before youre due to get married?.
happened to us, and we were f'in shocked!.
Hi
Just want to know if it is normal practice for the elder giving your wedding talk to ask you and your partner if youve had sex, about 1 week before youre due to get married?
happened to us, and we were f'in shocked!
regards....
just curious.
i was 17 when i was last spanked.
it was the day of my high school graduation.
i got phsically abused up until is was about 19.
got my two fingers broke for having a bad report at school
got beaten with peice of timber for having a non-jw g/f when i was 18
got knocked unconcious for having the wrong facial expression whilst being told off (apparently)
the beatings took place almost everyday at one point (when i was at secondary school)
after such beatings, he used to show me prov 23 (?) about train up a boy, not spare the rod.
i became so tough, once he broke the belt on me during said whipping, and got another one.. and i was so hardened i didnt cry for the next couple times, he said your not showing humilty as your not crying.
one day at school getting changed for PE, schoolmate pointed to my back and said 'what's that'?
loads of accounts to tell you but too much time!
im glad to say i now have forgiven my dad for this, he still goes meetings but he has chilled out a lot, still got a lot to work on. although i ve forgive him i still cant be in the same room as him for long, these days.
but.... thank heavens ive left the house!!!
nice to meet u. i have been a lurker on this forum for as far back as i can remember.. i was brought up as a fairly devout jehovahs witness since the age of 5.
(im now in 20s).
i started questioning the religion heavily last year.
thanx for all your support and 'brotherley' love
funny, i used to look down on people who left the borg. (lingo!)
but you guys are so nice.
im glad i'm mentally free now, to pick "truths" from other religions.
BUT
ive got to give them credit for their successful mind-control tactics. how on earth have they pulled that off for so long????
Lol with bronzefist! your right about the pond! pm me when you get chance, & Hi crumpet!
Its nice to speak to people who are in the same boat as you. no wonder the borg want you to stay away from apostates
(in fact, on a more serious note, there is a 'brother' in my old neighboring cong who was my old teacher, who is a pedophile (had to go to court to give evidence - fondled pupil in front of my brother - he was aquitted because the mother of the boy had natal depression and cracked at the trial and couldnt attend court) and despite their so called change of policy, is on the ministry unsupervised and a brother has approached me a couple years back and told me how this fool was showing "unnatural" attraction to his 14 yr old daughter!
Nasty! (btw, the police said he would never be able to teach again)
nice to meet u. i have been a lurker on this forum for as far back as i can remember.. i was brought up as a fairly devout jehovahs witness since the age of 5.
(im now in 20s).
i started questioning the religion heavily last year.
Maybe the 51st state
It was my paranoia of the first post, i thought i would disguise my identity just incase of the spies of the WTBTS!!!
no probs crumpet!
adultery (sexual relations with a married man); after all i was a prude as an active jw.
i never thought i would do such a thing.
nah, she doesnt come here
there is a lot more to the story, yes.
nice to meet u. i have been a lurker on this forum for as far back as i can remember.. i was brought up as a fairly devout jehovahs witness since the age of 5.
(im now in 20s).
i started questioning the religion heavily last year.
Im from the UK
nice to meet you all, and i am VERY thankful
adultery (sexual relations with a married man); after all i was a prude as an active jw.
i never thought i would do such a thing.
Hello all!
1) Having sex with my (then) fiancee in the living room of her JW elder's lounge
2) smoking a doobie
3)oral sex (!)
4) Questioning the doctrines
5) Using this site!
6) Anal Sex(!)
7) Going Dogging (do a google if you dont know what this is)
8) Fantasising about Gay sex
9) Masturbation when in teens, and used to have sleepless nights of guilt weeks after
10) sleeping with married woman old enough to be my mother (i regret this one)
Boy this site is fun!
nice to meet u. i have been a lurker on this forum for as far back as i can remember.. i was brought up as a fairly devout jehovahs witness since the age of 5.
(im now in 20s).
i started questioning the religion heavily last year.
Hello all
Nice to meet u. I have been a lurker on this forum for as far back as i can remember.
I was brought up as a fairly devout Jehovahs Witness since the age of 5. (im now in 20s). I Started questioning the religion heavily last year. But even more so toward the end. I got into a argument with a brother whos wife (a sister) who was drunk, to cut a long story short raised her hand to my partner and i pushed her down. as she fell she banged her head and knocked herself out ending up in hospital for the night.
Anyway to cut a long story short, her and her JW mother decided to press charges against me by saying that i thumped her, Which is ludicrous because im a big guy and she is a small mouthy thing. anyways, The JW couple decided in the meantime to set their non-jw uncle (who has a history with firearms) to send death threats to me and my wife (why?) through one of my uncles who lives in another state! Anyway i got arrested the next day and was in custody after questioning. The police informed me that the girl had a bruise on her head and i could be looking 6 months in jail (what! all i did was push the little drunkard out the way!) and there was allegations that i had beat her sensless!
anyway in my prison cell i started to think "this isnt jehovahs orgainsation" and started to pray. At the end of the day i had a wife and house at stake (forgot to mention, wife had emotional breakdown and stayed with her mother because of this (shes back now tho)) and her mother was backing the family in pressing charges against me because "he could be beating my daughter up" grrr....
I had the police unlock my cell.. he said "good news" they have decided to caution you because lack of evidence!! bad news is they have my DNA and Mugshot now for 5 years.
when i got out, i got the elders round my house
"we have had a phonecall from the PO of x cong to say you have attacked x"
i re-iterated what really happened that night and they asked my wife.
"i didnt see anything it all went so fast" wife says
"I think that you are lying to cover up your husband" elder says
They concluded that this was a serious matter and i wouldnt hear the last of it, and they would probably be a judicial. i said "look, im sick to death now. i have been temporarily seperated from my wife because of this, they have threatened to kill me and now you lot are in my house clutching at straws. Get out of my house and do not speak of this again."
Thats when I got thinking. That incident was in october and the elders have not tried to contact me again. I hate going to the meetings and my wife's eyes have been opened to the scam of a religion (did i say her dad is an elder) it is and how they thrive on scandal and punishment and shame.
i have lots of details omitted from the above incident so as to stop a witchhunt, because I and the incident is very well known.
On a lighter note, you lot (Blondie, Minimus, Garrybuss stillajwexelder ect ect) are like family aready because you do not judge people and you (and me) do not deserve to be shunned as you can see you are good, but were misguided people (like me.)
Love to you all.
here forerver
T1200.
