His concern about life was put to rest, he didn't have to worry about living anymore. Like the saying, "It's a journey, not a destination". Plus, why would anyone write in someone's obituary that they were afraid of dieing?
Are you still a jw? Because your method of "reasoning" is like a jw.
And why are you so upset over a man's obituary?
I think it might be wise to get yourself some help, you just seem really worked up over something that is silly. I'm not passing judgement on you, I just think that you seem on the edge and I wouldn't want anything to happen to you. I know the jw's frown on psychiatrist, but they can really help you and possibly make you a better jw. Love