" Because of what THEY perceive as defects in elders, some individuals who engage in serious wrongdoing in the congregation have refused to appear before a committee of elders assigned to help them. This could be likened to a patient who loses out on the benefits of a treatment because he does not like something about the doctors. "
Well, there you go. That takes care of any questions the friends might have about why some are leaving. A nice broad stroke. Could any of these that "engage in serious wrongdoing" be APOSTATES?!?!?!? NO. Ones who "engage in serious wrongdoing" are sex addicts and serial masturbators, everyone knows that!