its pronounced tij-ka-mo.....its not a real word..its an acronym that my best pal and i came up with that just summed up certain occasions...before he stopped speaking to me(horrible story-tell u later)...anyways can you come up with a suitable phrase using those letters before i tell you what it really stands for....t.i.j.k.m.o
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by tijkmo inits pronounced tij-ka-mo.....its not a real word..its an acronym that my best pal and i came up with that just summed up certain occasions...before he stopped speaking to me(horrible story-tell u later)...anyways can you come up with a suitable phrase using those letters before i tell you what it really stands for....t.i.j.k.m.o
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Need Article on No Contributions to Non-JW Charities "Spiritual Food"
by rebel8 ini am getting into it with a jw about this, who is claiming that wts encourages and allows jws to do charity work and give donations to non-jw charities.
i know i've seen the opposite in print in wts literature, but i can't find it right now.
google and searching this forum--haven't turned up anything.
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tis another unwritten rule...while they cant come out and say thou shalt not give to other charities the inference is why would you want to when you can give to wtbts...reminds me of when i was at school..we used to have lots of activities arranged for 'save the children' day. they were all voluntary but we didnt get involved cos it was worldly and anyway save the children was part of unicef..well one year the sports master decided to run a pillow fight on a log knockout competition thingy and everyone was expected to join in and pay the inclusion fee as there was not going to be any other classes that day...well i could have stayed off school but in the manner of the three hebrews i decided to go along but first i spoke to the organizer to inform him that i would be prepared to participate but i wouldnt make a donation as it was against my conscience...he was fine with it said it was no problem and respected my stance...on the day,when i was called forward for my bout he informed the whole school that i wasnt making a donation....so now as well as being a jw..lanky..ugly..in hand me down untrendy clothes..english(in a scottish school-dont even go there) i would now get the crap beaten out of me for being a mean b***.......... and then we go and join the freakin u.n. anyway...best days of our lives...tijkmo.....oh by the way...the mandatory contribution for participation which i refused to pay.....wait for it....1p............ONE PENNY
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Surgery Tomorrow
by Satanus ina simple tooth extraction has led to this.
it was an upper tooth that was root canaled.
canal went bad and i had it pulled out in about six pieces.
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tijkmo
im new here so dont know you but i hope all goes well....
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thanx for the welcome
by tijkmo inthanx for all your welcoming comments..im really quite nervous about this..some of you spoke about spiritual abuse and i understand this but im also aware that victims of abuse can rationalise that it will be the last time and at least its attention which i guess is why im still struggling to make a clean break..aswell as my family all being jw and i dont have friends elsewhere..to let you know a bit bout me...unlike many here i loved it..nothing about being a witness was ever a problem for me..i pioneered straight from school because id always wanted to,not a sacrafice although i was good at everything academically musically sportily(im sorry its just a fact) loved the pioneer school..hated window cleaning but it was good money and i only worked a couple of days..i loved being ms..mags lit mikes hall cleaning..loved being an elder..i was not a bully i genuinely liked helping people..loved my group which was never boring liked training newer ones in the ministry helping with their talks loved sheperding..gave great talks and a rivetting wt study was on circuit and district assemblies and elders schools etc..esp got on well with young ones..i was a baptizer i did weddings and funerals cooked at quick builds and helped out on bethel constuction..i wasnt proud of myself i just took great pride in using all my time effort and abilities in serving j......and then i made a mistake....and what they did to me was neither scriptural organizational or humane...as a result of which i had one nervous breakdown after another along with several bouts of suicidal tendancies for which i was hospitalized my marraige failed my relationship with my family strained to say the least and even though ive been reinstated about 18 months now none of my former friends want anything to do with me...im picking up the pieces slowly and doing a music course at college(oh no i said the c word) there are still days when i think that stoning was less cruel than what they did to me....if i still prayed i would ask j to hurry up with armageddon already to put me out of my misery....thanx for listening..still got plenty more to say..tijkmo
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yeah im ok just now...sure has been tough and havent even told you what happened yet..it gets worse-much worse...had a good day at college today..got a circuit assembly tomorrow..that will be an ordeal i think but i dont care anymore...im unembarrassable....someone posted a quote on here a couple of weeks back: its not the words of your enemies that you remember..its the silence of your friends....used it in a song wish id written it though
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Anyone ever beat a speeding ticket (not that I would have one)
by zman inok this friend of mine (hahahah) got a ticket in san antonio.
he was guilty as sin, 79 in a 65 and passed a plain jane cop car, the three lane changes (no signal) did'nt help.
this 'guy' now has ten tickets in three states, he always says he will fight one.
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tijkmo
yeah i used the old favourite...ive just been reinstated and everyone is still shunning me and im going to see an old friend to see if it stops me from killing myself....i kid you not..had to go to court and armed with a letter from my psychiatrist i got off...cost me twice as much as the fine cos i borrowed my sisters car for court appearance and i put unleaded instead of diesel in the tank and had to pay for engine flush..but it was the principle and it was worth it to show how worldly satanic justice is better than the perfect kind
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thanx for the welcome
by tijkmo inthanx for all your welcoming comments..im really quite nervous about this..some of you spoke about spiritual abuse and i understand this but im also aware that victims of abuse can rationalise that it will be the last time and at least its attention which i guess is why im still struggling to make a clean break..aswell as my family all being jw and i dont have friends elsewhere..to let you know a bit bout me...unlike many here i loved it..nothing about being a witness was ever a problem for me..i pioneered straight from school because id always wanted to,not a sacrafice although i was good at everything academically musically sportily(im sorry its just a fact) loved the pioneer school..hated window cleaning but it was good money and i only worked a couple of days..i loved being ms..mags lit mikes hall cleaning..loved being an elder..i was not a bully i genuinely liked helping people..loved my group which was never boring liked training newer ones in the ministry helping with their talks loved sheperding..gave great talks and a rivetting wt study was on circuit and district assemblies and elders schools etc..esp got on well with young ones..i was a baptizer i did weddings and funerals cooked at quick builds and helped out on bethel constuction..i wasnt proud of myself i just took great pride in using all my time effort and abilities in serving j......and then i made a mistake....and what they did to me was neither scriptural organizational or humane...as a result of which i had one nervous breakdown after another along with several bouts of suicidal tendancies for which i was hospitalized my marraige failed my relationship with my family strained to say the least and even though ive been reinstated about 18 months now none of my former friends want anything to do with me...im picking up the pieces slowly and doing a music course at college(oh no i said the c word) there are still days when i think that stoning was less cruel than what they did to me....if i still prayed i would ask j to hurry up with armageddon already to put me out of my misery....thanx for listening..still got plenty more to say..tijkmo
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thanx for all your welcoming comments..im really quite nervous about this..some of you spoke about spiritual abuse and i understand this but im also aware that victims of abuse can rationalise that it will be the last time and at least its attention which i guess is why im still struggling to make a clean break..aswell as my family all being jw and i dont have friends elsewhere..to let you know a bit bout me...unlike many here i loved it..nothing about being a witness was ever a problem for me..i pioneered straight from school because id always wanted to,not a sacrafice although i was good at everything academically musically sportily(im sorry its just a fact) loved the pioneer school..hated window cleaning but it was good money and i only worked a couple of days..i loved being ms..mags lit mikes hall cleaning..loved being an elder..i was not a bully i genuinely liked helping people..loved my group which was never boring liked training newer ones in the ministry helping with their talks loved sheperding..gave great talks and a rivetting wt study was on circuit and district assemblies and elders schools etc..esp got on well with young ones..i was a baptizer i did weddings and funerals cooked at quick builds and helped out on bethel constuction..i wasnt proud of myself i just took great pride in using all my time effort and abilities in serving J......AND THEN I MADE A MISTAKE....and what they did to me was neither scriptural organizational or humane...as a result of which i had one nervous breakdown after another along with several bouts of suicidal tendancies for which i was hospitalized my marraige failed my relationship with my family strained to say the least and even though ive been reinstated about 18 months now none of my former friends want anything to do with me...im picking up the pieces slowly and doing a music course at college(oh no i said the c word) there are still days when i think that stoning was less cruel than what they did to me....if i still prayed i would ask J to hurry up with armageddon already to put me out of my misery....thanx for listening..still got plenty more to say..tijkmo
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i was a skinny 13 year old when i was dipped..you wouldnt want to see that.............but i rocked as a dipper...alas no photos of that..at least i dont have
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Cindi Lauper
by Cygnus in.
she's like 50 or 51 now, but when "girls just wanna have fun" came out, as a red blooded teenage boy i was totally in love.. just thought you all needed to know.
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alison moyet did it for me....not
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counsel from elders
by bonnzo inhow many have had elder give u this counsel(or if /were an elder given this counsel):
"its come to our attention that u were(fill in space with anything that is up to your own conscience that is ok in wt world such as pg-13 movie, certain music, or choice of entertainmen).
this has offended the conscience of others" then proceeds to counsel u to cease and desist so as to appease the other persons conscience.. isn't this a case of the sensitive conscience forcing me to abide their concience even more so than they claim im offending theirs?
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tijkmo
i was going to see pink floyd with a bunch of young guys in my hall and another young lad who wasnt invited simply because he was too young decided we shouldnt be going so reported us to the elders...i was an ms acting as an elder at the time..public talks..group..etc.so i was told not to go but hey it WAS pink floyd and when i returned i still gave the public talk etc...but when the co came i was invited along with the po to the encouragement room and i was reprimanded and had all my priveledges removed..i did try in my defence to reason with the po (a lying backstabbing bully if ever there was one...hope he finds out i said this and sues) because he used to go to concerts with his teenage daughters but true to form he denied it to my face in the presence of the co (and J. come to that tho i doubt he cares)..the guys who came with me all got extra priveledges after the co visit..i was well chuffed (but pleased for them)..tijkmo
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saying hi
by tijkmo inhi im new to the world....been lurking for a while but cant keep quiet any more...so much to say so much time...as an intro can i ask if anyone else begged grovelled pleaded lost their dignity in order to get reinstated only to find that it was worse than being d/fd cos at least when you were d/fd you knew why all your friends treated you like crap
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hi im new to the world....been lurking for a while but cant keep quiet any more...so much to say so much time...as an intro can i ask if anyone else begged grovelled pleaded lost their dignity in order to get reinstated only to find that it was worse than being d/fd cos at least when you were d/fd you knew why all your friends treated you like crap