Leslie....I'm so sorry you endured this. I cannot believe your mom said that to you. Mothers are supposed to be nurturing and caring and loving. Protective of their children, no matter their age. You said,
My daughter would beat the shit out of a man, spit him out and serve him up to the devil if they touched her. She knows and will not live or tolerate it.
AMEN!!!!! Good for you! I'm proud of you for teaching your daughter to look after herself. I'm also glad your eldest son got help, that's half the battle.
Hugs to you Leslie.