How I lusted after sweet Brother Cheeky, alas it wasn't to be. He used to say that he preferred women who don't wear makeup but always went for the tedious princesses who slapped it on with a trowel.
sass_my_frass
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Hot sisters (or brothers) in your cong...
by blakky ini was just wandering.... was it just me or was everyone thinking about it..... ive been in a few congs where some of the sisters were absolutely drop dead gorgeous!
my last cong here in sydney, there was about 160 publishers so the talent was every where... i remember having the hots for this sister, who happens to be the wife of the service overseer... she was xxx hot.
i remember always having to wear my suit coat to the meeting to hide my excitement.. i think all the bro's must have thought the same thing.
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i need some advise
by bayrhino inwe'll were do i start i've surfed your board and i now at the point of breaking away from the jw organization .
for about 2 years now i've read and done some research and seen all the lies cover up read "crisis if conscience" ray franz and i got to the meeting and see all these people hundreds just going about not being open minded if wt tells these people the world is flat the thats what they'll believe and never question it.
we'll im 28 and been a jw all my life met my wife got married i have 2 wonderfull kids.
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Wow, so sorry. I believe that the only people who really matter in this are you, your wife, and your kids. Everything you decide ought to consider only them. The rest of your family you probably love deeply, but it's your immediate family to whom you have a responsibility. Don't think that you have to answer to anybody else. You have too much to worry about, so cut it back to only them, I suggest, and focus on keeping your unit together. Be realistic about how to be a family if you're in and she's out. Talk about everything that comes up. Don't put pressure on her to change - you know how hard this is as a witness. Let her do all of her thinking in her own time, but don't let anything block communication. I'm a big fan of the 'fade'... especially in your case as disassociating yourself will put a terrible amount of pressure on your marriage. But as you have been very vocal so far it will be difficult to achieve - I'd suggest that you stop discussing it with other family and friends. Sooner or later you'll get one who doesn't like being 'stumbled' and will want you out, and you don't need that. I'm not saying that you should bottle this in forever, just take your time. If you ever eventually do leave, it will be more of a jolt than you can imagine, so prepare your life. A good thing to do is to start learning how to make non-witness friends. Explore another interest and that way you'll meet people you like and can relate to. You'll need non-witness contacts if you ever make the break, so start looking for other people you can be friends with.
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Is there any hope of you coming back to Jehovah?
by LeftBehind inmy brother is a self proclaimed apostate.
i see now that there is a wide variety of posters here.
so to those that have left the witnesses what would it take to get you back?
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sass_my_frass
Hi, I'm sorry you're hurting like this. Your brother is probably feeling worse though. If my family showed me genuine Christian love, I might decide to listen to their views but they don't, they just mindlessly do what they're told, thinking that it's the right thing. It's their lack of love and the unkind games that they play that completely turn me off even thinking about returning. That's how the shunning order fails - the organisation tells you that the best thing you can do for him is to shun him, as that way he will want to turn around to get you back. THINK about this hon... why would he want an unloving and uncaring family back? I don't want anybody's conditional love, he probably doesn't either. As it happens I'm closer to Jehovah now than when I was a witness - I've stopped playing the secular game that made me a good witness, and started having actual faith. So I never left Jehovah, just a publishing company that tells lies to it's members to maintain it's control over their lives.
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Do the angels guide people to the witnesses?
by undercover ini remember growing up that we used to hear experiences of people who felt lost in life or weren't happy and miraculasly a jw showed up at the door and brought life-saving good news to the distressed one who moments ago was seeking help from god in prayer.. and there were the experiences of people who led a life of debauchery until realizing that they weren't happy and they had to change.
enter jws as a study was started and the former evil-doer was transformed into a zealous servant of god.. we've all heard the stories.
they were always shared at assemblies and public talks to impress upon us that god's spirit was acting upon either the witness who found the searching on or that the spirit moved the searching one to find the organization.
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When I was massively depressed and contemplating suicide, the angels directed no JW's to me. Maybe if we added up all the successful suicides on the planet, and all the people who are feeling disillusioned in their lives and wanting something better from it, and who weren't at that moment contacted by JW's, we'd realise that the people who were, were statistically inevitable.
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new member
by cyberdyne systems 101 inhi everyone, i'm a newly registered member here.
left the witnesses coming up to two years ago, got df about 8 months after that, still struggle with life after the 'truth', feel resentful of it all, but know i'd never return to that brain washing.
anyway hello to everyone one, enjoyed reading posts i've seen so far.. arnie
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sass_my_frass
I am feeling so liberated by my new intellectual freedom! I hope you're enjoying yours too. I know how much it can get you down though... hang in there!
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Being more clearer: a message from truenote.
by truenote inthank you for your words.. i am sorry if i left somethings unclear or about what kind of help i need.
in truth, the first of what i needed was to hear and read.
the very things said.
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sass_my_frass
Hi princess! Much love to you... it sounds like you have been dealt a rough hand. I suggest finding the thing that you like, what you consider fun, and doing as much of it as you can. That was one of my strategies for dealing with depression. The other was helping out other people who had it tough... you do that too, good for you.
I can relate to enjoying being the 'behind the scenes' person, I like being indispensible without their acknowledging it. I just know that they know it. Your talents are very useful on this planet, now go out there and use them! The more you put yourself into the community, the more contact you'll have with people you can relate to. Loneliness was hard for me to kick, but I found that as I grew as a person people liked to have me around.
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Anniversary of sorts today, 6 years since I left
by dedpoet inyes, it is 6 years today since i entered a kingdom hall for the very last time, and with each passing year this particular "anniversary" gets happier.
even better this time, i have so many people to share it with who have had the same kind of jw experiences as me, in the past the friends i have made since leaving the lie kind of acknowledged it, but didn't really understand, so i just want you all to share in my joy today.
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I hereby present you with these congratulations, admonitions to party, and gifts....
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Something I want to tell you apostates
by LeftBehind ini want you to know that you have destroyed a family because of your lies about jehovah and his organization.
a family member went apostate and has turned his back on jehovah.
he told us he is never coming back and i know he went and visited internet sites.
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sass_my_frass
Much love to you LeftBehind. Do realise that it depends upon your perspective. For example, my mother joined 'The Truth' and it destroyed my family. Ask yourself who the liars are.
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Turkmenistan: Police Brutality against JW
by richard in.
http://www.forum18.org/archive.php?article_id=693
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sass_my_frass
"Hooray! Persecution! The end is nigh!"
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How do you feel about promiscuous sex?
by free2beme ini work with a guy who sleep with a lot of different woman, and when i say a lot, i mean a lot!
i know what some are thinking, "oh he probably sleeps with a few and makes it sound like more.
" well i would think that too, if i did not actually meet a lot of these woman and work with some of them and they admit to sleeping with him on a regular basis.
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sass_my_frass
I'm a bit live and let live these days. I'd want any young person wanting to go exploring to be sure they're fully trained on safety and would hope that they have people they can trust to talk about the feelings it brings up... but as far as I'm concerned as long as nobody is getting hurt it isn't any of my business. Not my style for sure, sex is very precious to me, but I'm pretty weird.