jgnat, thanks for writing! Our son knows how we feel about the WTS. We are what they call "oposers". We've tried to talk sense into him in a loving way. But, we feel he thinks if he doesn't join, he'll lose his wife. I think the KH has been putting a lot of pressure on HER to get him to join. We sent him a Christmas card telling him how much he'll be missed at Christmastime and that we'll be thinking of him.
It's very heartbreaking for us......