Ms D...
One more observation, when I hear gay men refer to each other as "Bitch" from what I understand they actually snicker and approve of that term.
If any gays reading these posts would like to suggest otherwise, please enlighten.
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It's just like MsMcDucket said earlier, when you hear two black people call each other the n word in expressions among themselves, it's no big deal, but it is not okay for someone else to use that to address them in the same way (in most cases).