Sure you can minimus, you can shove them other people to worry about. I have irresponsible relatives that do that all the time. I have a sister and nephew that is always in a bind since they can't manage their lives and they eventually have my mother to bail them out. Not only do they drain my mother financially they manage to live on government handouts since they know how to work the system instead of trying to better their lives through self improvement.
LRG