Many of those I knew didn't seem to be too concerned about me when I was struggling for a job or a place to live when I was younger and they had decent jobs back in the day with generous retirement funds which allowed them or their family members to pioneer or serve where the need was great.
I think if I saw them now I would just share the same scriptures they did with me a long time ago like Matthew 6:33 which talks about seeking the kingdom and Psalms which says throw your burdens on Jehovah and Proverbs 3:5: Trust in Jehovah. Sorry I can't do more than say be warm and well fed.
Back then I received more judgement than I received genuine help. Fuck them.