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I tell my mom I'm going to the meetings, and I only went to the memorial back home.

This is where the tat will be and the tat.

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How am I doing?

by tsunami_rid3r in

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i'm doing great just to let you know.

first, i haven't attended a meeting for 5 mmonths now!

i have an amazing network of friends here, and i'm going to be rooming with 2 hot girls next semester.

I'm doing great just to let you know. First, I haven't attended a meeting for 5 mmonths now!
I have an amazing network of friends here, and I'm going to be rooming with 2 hot girls next semester.
I've started dating and I love it.
I'm making awesome grades, and I've decided to major in anthropology to become an archaeologist.
I'm celebrating my birthday twice! Tomorrow I'm getting a tattoo. But I'm getting drunk first.
My dad's cheating on my mom, and for some reason I support that.
The relationship between my and dad and me has grown.
I have an awesome job here.
I don't know what is bad.
I just seem really lucky, and I want to thank those people that have told me things will get better, because they do.

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Finding that one true love? Am I learning anything...

by tsunami_rid3r in

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1) circumstances .

2) vibes .

circumstances, rely on fate and the current situation.

tsunami_rid3r

I think its all about the following:

1) Circumstances
2) Vibes
3) Follow-ups

Circumstances, rely on fate and the current situation. Its more of a luck game of just being there at the right time. You'll have to put yourself out there, making yourself available, to be there at the right time in the first place.

Vibes, are the language, bodily and verbally, that you give off. You'll want to not come out as being desperate, but calm and relaxed.

Follow-ups, are the actions you take in response to hers. This is vital if you want redundancy.

If those 3 are right then you're good to go. Often, I find the reason I'm not getting any is one of these factors are missing.

For example, I joined a college club and I saw this girl. First thing, I had a crush for her. I found out she had a boyfriend, but still I pursued her. I got to know her better eventually, and she seemed pretty cool. I noticed the signals from her, lots of complimenting on my looks, and some suggestions from her bestfriend.

Eventually I found out she broke up with her boyfriend and she needed a date for her senior formal. I'm just a freshman, but I decided to call her up and casually work my way to asking her if I could go with her. She said she was going to go with some friends, but she'll keep me posted. In the end, she's going with her friends. And I'm not pursueing her anymore. I've forced myself to get rid of this stupid crush. Add to that, she's moving to Africa after she graduates.

I see elements of circumstance and follow-up are missing.

Another example, when I was living at home, I was helping a buddy with a girl he liked. I happened to meet this girl at a party before hand. I talked to her, and she was opposite of me. She was new, so I told her I'd show her around town. I got her number, but I called her once and she didn't answer. So I didn't call her again.

I had no feelings for her, so it was a good situation to help my buddy. I told him to tell her how he feels for her at the dance, well I show up at the dance to cheer him on, only to find out he missed that chance because he waited.

Well, my dad invited her family to my house, and me and her were up in my bedroom, just hanging out. We both play guitar, and she just loved my long hair. I just felt the vibe that she wanted me. She was feeling up on my muscles and putting her legs under me. But her little sister was there. So she invited me out for lunch the next day. I follow-up on that, and there at lunch she scoots close to me and starts rubbing up on me. On short notice, she found out she had to move back home out of state at the end of the week.

I see the elements of circumstance being off.

In conclusion, fate blows. I hate fate, and I hate waiting.

Am I right on this or what?

Can you critique me on the past pursuits? I'd appreciate it...could learn a thing or two.

tsunami_rid3r

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