My mother in law had 4 kids and none of them are currently "progressing in the truth". She flat out told my wife that she was sad that none of her kids were in the truth and that it would be a waste of time to have relationships with any of them because of that.
So why even bother bringing kids into "this wicked system of things"?
Why bother having kids if you know from the start you cannot give them unconditional love and attention?
Is that really fair?