i have finally got grandma to agree to seeing her grandchild
That struck me too!....if you think she hasn't been seeing your child because of pressure from Elders (as she can't visit your home and there's no way you should allow a minor alone with her - or any dub), then she is going to be in a very difficult position if she DOES visit. If she really HAS to think twice between having her own grandchild in her life or upsetting her Cult leaders, then that speaks volumes.