a lot of bad boys are still softies underneath
Charisma
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Bad boys V's Nice guys
by Lehaa in.
ok all you girls out there.. which do you prefer and why?.
or can a bad boy be nice.. and i'm not talking about the crims.. you know, motor bikes, tattoo's, etc.. leah - of the can't get enough of vin diesel
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If you won the Lottery big time, would you be happier?
by Rod P inhow many of us imagine winning the big one, and all our problems in life would be solved.
we could get whatever we wanted without worrying about money, could buy our way out of almost any situation (like the rich folks do), go on any vacation anywhere in the world, dress to the nines on a daily basis, and use our wealth to get others to do our bidding.. money = sex, power, influence, decadent luxury = happiness???.
rod p.
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Charisma
I would buy all my kids a home of their own and them give them a nice chunk of money in each of their bank accounts
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Worldly People
by Undecided ini was sitting in my car in a parking lot and an old woman came out with a shopping cart with a few items in it.
she was putting them in the back of a pickup truck and it was a little high for her to lift things over the side.
she had a bag of dogfood or something like it and a young woman saw that it would be hard for her to lift it and she ran over and lifted it over for her and pattied her on the back and walked over to her car and left.
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Charisma
Well I remember them telling us as witnesses we should do those things, but then they always wanted you to somehow make sure they understood because you were a Jehovahs Witness, that was why you were extending a hand. You were always supposed to some how "give a witness"
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What age were you baptised? Do you regret it?
by doodle-v ini would have gotten baptised at the first "special assembly day" but i got sick just a few days before.
so i got baptised at the d.c.that same year instead.
i regret it, but at the time i thought i was doing the right thing, i sincerely believed i was dedicating my life to serving god.
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Charisma
I was 16 and yes I regret it!
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Charisma
lol, that would be good, but I know that my mom would burn it. I wouldnt' chance precious information not being appreciated.
I won't get my mom anything. She wouldnt' want anything.
I was going to get my bf's mom something but now since he messed up, maybe I won't be
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Running Journal.. well sort of
by Sassy inok. this is not a thread killer thread.. so please do not post pics to gross people out.. and then we lose the thread... .
this is just a thread to check in.. say hi.. if you want to vent that gas prices were high on the way into work .. do it.. .
if you just want to say how much you love us.. say that?.
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Charisma
Thank you Simplesally. I do love Fridays myself. I am not sure if this weekend will be a good one though.
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Running Journal.. well sort of
by Sassy inok. this is not a thread killer thread.. so please do not post pics to gross people out.. and then we lose the thread... .
this is just a thread to check in.. say hi.. if you want to vent that gas prices were high on the way into work .. do it.. .
if you just want to say how much you love us.. say that?.
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Charisma
my boyfriend kind of 'online' cheated on me. He forgot his messenger up and I saw women on his list and conversations about him looking for the "right one" still
so today I don't have anything exciting to write as I would in a journal.
But it was nice to be able to distract my thoughts here today reading what other people had to say
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Running Journal.. well sort of
by Sassy inok. this is not a thread killer thread.. so please do not post pics to gross people out.. and then we lose the thread... .
this is just a thread to check in.. say hi.. if you want to vent that gas prices were high on the way into work .. do it.. .
if you just want to say how much you love us.. say that?.
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Charisma
I like journals
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A very lonely life.
by Harpy inhow do i stop having a lonely life?
i am 33 years old and have never had a relationship with anyone.
i have never dated..and as much as i would like to blame the jws, truth is i have never been asked out by anyone..ever.. i am a bit large, but i am not too fat or ugly and i think i am a good person, so why can't i find someone??
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Charisma
I do partially blame the Watchtower Society for your situation. We were not really taught how to "pick people up". Especially women/sisters. You were supposed to be humble and meek and wait for some brother to notice you and then chose to make you his wife. And we really were not talk to think about dating. That would be selfish when we were supposed to be thinking about the kingdom! Plus if we had true faith in Jehovah, he would provide, so in the mean time we were to preach preach preach!!!
Sadly that isn't the real world.
You have a lot of good advice here. Do things with friends, get active, stay active. You are bound to meet someone. Take care of yourself and believe in yourself. If you don't, pick up a book on self confidence. If you invest in yourself, you are bound to enjoy life more and attract people to you.
When you aren't doing things active in the 'real world' maybe meet some people here on the net. I like to go into chatrooms from time to time. There are a variety of rooms for people interested in dating. Including rooms where men prefer thick women.
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Everyone deserves a funeral....surely!!!!
by Gill ini haven't posted much recently on the site but wanted to tell you about something bad that has happened.. some of you will remember me posting about my husbands very elderly grandfather.
we wanted to take him in to live with us when he was diagnosed with mild dementia but my husbands parents insisted that he go into a care home and conned him into signing an epa.
there reason for not allowing this lovely old man to live out his days with us was that their responsibility was to consider his 'spiritual needs' and since we no longer went to meetings we could never look after him ...so they stuck him, against his will, into the home.
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Charisma
This is so sad. I am so sorry for you and your husband and for his grandfather. What a sad way to have one's last days. How people can live with their selfishness, I do not know