Goodnight, MsDucket... You never fail to make me smile... I love your sense of humor.
Cas
the "why can't jws say good luck" thread made me remember something from my childhood.. i was a child in the 80s.
mr. t was huge back then.
he used to say "i pity the fool that ______" (insert anything here).
Goodnight, MsDucket... You never fail to make me smile... I love your sense of humor.
Cas
the "why can't jws say good luck" thread made me remember something from my childhood.. i was a child in the 80s.
mr. t was huge back then.
he used to say "i pity the fool that ______" (insert anything here).
"walking with his ass"?
Lol............I wish I had used that.........
Cas
is there anything worse than this?
sometimes it is ok, other times it sucks.
Aphrodite said :
I know every now and then I have a thought that my life is too good to be true and an impending sense of doom like it can't possibly last and the better things are the worse a thing will happen.
Slowly I am deprogramming from that as terrible things don't happen and actually more and more good things happen to me.
I have this same feeling also. We did live under a constant cloud of doom... In my case, I felt that if I allowed myself to be happy, apart from the organization, then God would come and snatch it all away.
I think it keeps some of us more or less stuck, afraid to be happy. Not sure if you feel this way or not, Scoobysnax, but I know it has affected me on some levels.
Cas
is there anything worse than this?
sometimes it is ok, other times it sucks.
you are right Scoobysnax,
Most of us are looking at your situation from an outsider point of view. I have never lived with the choices you are facing. I do realize how stressful it must be.
As for flipping a switch and turning off the "What -IF- it is the truth" thoughts, I think some of us do deal with that. I know I do. If, and I mean "IF" it is the truth... then I am toast and so are my children. That also is hard to deal with on a daily basis. So, on some level I can relate to what you are saying.
I literally felt spiritually dead the last few years as a witness... something was wrong, and I don't feel it was 100 % me. So, I keep reading and searching, who know where I will end up.
I wish we had the answers for you, I really do.
Sincerely,
Cas
i've been doing the home study with the jw's for almost a year now.
i've never attended the kingdom hall meetings because i didn't want to -- i used my parents' objection as an excuse.
but now i'm at a problem - i believe more as the christadelphians believe, and i no longer want to do the study with the jw's i know.
Welcome Bryce,
I agree with BFD and others, just be honest with them, the sooner the better.
If they are your real friends they will stick around, if not, at least you will know. Time will tell.
Cas
well here i am having a bible study at my home and the doorbell rings, the door opens and closes, i hear a few voices.
she comes back and hands me the march 1 watchtower, march 8 awake and a invitation to the memorial on march 22, 2008 and a special talk to" who is qualified to rule mankind?
" on april 6, 2008.. so did you get yours?.
Haven't had one in years. I feel so deprived...
Even tho one of the elders drives a Fed-X truck and delivers here once in a while. He's friendly, business wise...so they know where I am...
Cas
the "why can't jws say good luck" thread made me remember something from my childhood.. i was a child in the 80s.
mr. t was huge back then.
he used to say "i pity the fool that ______" (insert anything here).
Ya'll could say "Jack Ass".... wish I had know that, (other than reading). I would have thrown that around all over the place..
The "Brothers" used to say fudge alot. I would think WTH is the difference, we all know what you mean...
Cas
what's your favourite cheese?.
i like super sharp cheddar and blue..
Feta, Swiss and Colby. Can't stand imitation cheese.
i would have to say the nagging feeling that iam not good enough (in thier eyes) does not bother me anymore
Not having to "STOP" and examine every single move I make, or every word I say. Lest I "Stumble" someone...
Oh, and the panty hose and heels too...
Cas
the "why can't jws say good luck" thread made me remember something from my childhood.. i was a child in the 80s.
mr. t was huge back then.
he used to say "i pity the fool that ______" (insert anything here).