Tylin; So you prefer to duck and hide, cloak and dagger? Does that mean, you are deceiving yourself, living a lie? how does that make one feel? Knowing that the shit they are being fed is all lies, yet to maintain family/friends they betray their own selves? In the end, does it even work out? For some yes, but I have seen many more still lose the war, while they attempt to fight the battle...
...because I can show you story after story after story on here and elsewhere, where people are fading for YEARS and are as miserable as they were on day one! ...and usually in the end they lose something or someone, they were trying to avoid for all those years...