Well smelly seems to have hit a nerve, including mine! I don't think smelly get's it, and if he ever was a witness he wasn't much of one. Basically if you tried to be a good obedient witness for too long it is going to reduce your life choices, obviously if smelly doesn't have any issues he can't have really embraced the 'truth' so it's impacts are going to be less.
In my case I didn't go to university, but I did get a job in Telecommunications which has given me a good career - I wasn't in to it enough to go pioneering like many of my friends did. So the impacts on me - not so much. However many of my old pioneering friends are now on what I'd consider the bones of their arse - still renting, no savings, trusting on Jehovah to provide - these people are genuinely hoodwinked!
A guess I was neutral inactive until recently when I found out just what sort of doctrine changes and lies the JW's have been telling people. As I have peop[le I care about still in the borg it does piss me off - it's unlikely that they will ever see what has been held out as bait, nor will they fully enjoy whats on offer here and now.
Anyway a lot of the great people on this site have experienced 1st hand the injustice of an organsiation they trusted - and they have taken responisbility - they are here and most are safely out. Try, if you have the capability, to understand what it would be like to have those who may have been your closest friends treat you like were some skin head racist freak, total shunning! Imagine if you were born into this and had been brainwashed from birth then to end up shunned - yes this could cause a tad of justifed bitterness.
The people on this site are for the most part getting on with their lives, and sharing via the web their experiences so that others don't feel they have to go through it alone, it is a healing process.