Butalbee,
Here's one idea:
Pay attention when you are in public. Make eye contact, and do not be ashamed to greet others, especially handsome young men. You don't have to flirt; just be polite and show personal interest if you are interested.
Where do you go frequently? Do you get around much in your neighborhood?
You can use casual conversation to initiate a personal conversation. Try to connect by engaging a person's mind. (Well, perhaps save this till after you offer your phone number.)
Have you ever offered a guy your phone number? Before he had to ask you?
This has worked wonderfully once for me. (not with a guy of course.) I offered a woman my phone number upon randomly meeting her at my bus stop, and she called me a couple of days later. Luck was on my side in that she had just arrived from Switzerland the previous day and needed a friend. I was only too happy to oblige. (She is here until the beginning of next month, but I have been quite the gentleman since she arrived. )
I have been too chicken on many other occasions to make that spark happen. And quite a few times, I knew what I was missing.
There's just a feeling sometimes; I can't explain it better than that.
p.s.: do you really mean 'a few'? If so, add me to your roster of new recruits!
cellomould

"In other words, your God is the warden of a prison where the only prisoner is your God." Jose Saramago, The Gospel According to Jesus Christ