Hi I am new to this site.
I am currently a JW – but not baptised. I still attend meetings but I am wanting to stop.
Please let me know how you feel about this:
I have been going out with a guy for 2 years (a baptised bro) (who is planning on leaving meetings too).
I have to hide the fact that I have been in love with him for two years because it is WRONG for an unbaptised person to date a baptised brother.
So basically, the guy I love so much, I cant go out with him unless I’m baptised, and I’m getting all this crap from people to “take it slow” and “not to see eachother often as its wrong” WHAT? As if I am gonna stay in this “faith” and not be able to have a partner, we were made to have these feelings and we’re being told to keep them to ourselves until we are “mature spiritually”. What a load of nonsense!