I had a look at Sperling, thanks.
The more I look into it, the more I am learning. I think I am freaked out a bit by how the society works. There are jobs and housing that specify race and age. I have seen them openly request very attractive women(I'm doomed in a job search!) I am not a rabid feminist or anything, but my American sensibilities are going to have to get a little less rigid on my ideas of the way things ought to be.
My husband may be getting transferred there (not sure thing) and I have been avidly seeking more info. Apparently Qatar is not a major destination:)