Hi,
I have had the privilege of leading a support group for former Jehovah's Witnesses since 1988 in the Edmonton, Alberta, Canada area.
One of the first things in our group that we discuss with new ex-Witnesses is how the Watchtower and all cults place themselves between you and God. This is what makes followers believe that they must be in submission to a particular organization in order to be in right standing with God. Yet, the Biblical model is that the church is to be beside you as a servant. The healthy church model is that the church is there to teach you and encourage you in your faith with God but NEVER, EVER will they place themselves as necessary for salvation or in a position as mediator between you and God.
Once an ex-Witness can understand this concept they are better able to search for themselves and find a church family that will serve them in their search for God. Without this understanding, many ex-Witnesses replace the Watchtower with another cult group who teaches them that they are the way to God.
When Jesus said that no man can come to the Father except through him, he excluded all religions as the source of truth for only Jesus is "the way, the truth and the life". The church should be a servant not a mediator.
Our web site has many testimonies of former Jehovah's Witnesses who have found the only real mediator between God and man. http://www.jwinfoline.com On our audio page you will hear 'Mouthy' Grace Gough and her struggle to learn this vital truth. http://www.jwinfoline.com/Page/audio.htm Her testimony "He knocked at my door and I opened" will touch your heart.
Cheryl