Posts by Christina77

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Just my luck.....

by LDH in

well guys and gals, i had to get a (routine) pelvic culture a week ago.. they test for beta strep bacteria when you're 37 weeks.. i tested positive, no big deal.. they put me on ampicillin and told me i have to have an iv antibiotic at the hospital.. guess what the ampicillin gave me?.

yup.. lisa.

disgusted class

Christina77

LDH -

Cranberry juice works on it as well... so drink up... and good luck!!!

and Joel... sorry to say but you can get one too and it isn't a pleasant experience.

Christina

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THE MALE BRAIN

by Sirona in

Christina77

Oh that was too funny!

Thanks for the laugh,

Christina

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Blood Type

by Christina77 in

is it normal for those that refuse blood to not know their blood type?

that is usually one of the first things that the hospital lets parents know about their kids and when you go for any blood work it is on the top of the sheet.

i have a very rare blood type and i questioned my boyfriend about his for future knowlege when we have kids.

Christina77

Hey ashitaka -

I think that comes from another allele... but good thinking.

Christina

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Blood Type

by Christina77 in

is it normal for those that refuse blood to not know their blood type?

that is usually one of the first things that the hospital lets parents know about their kids and when you go for any blood work it is on the top of the sheet.

i have a very rare blood type and i questioned my boyfriend about his for future knowlege when we have kids.

Christina77

Thank you

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Blood Type

by Christina77 in

is it normal for those that refuse blood to not know their blood type?

that is usually one of the first things that the hospital lets parents know about their kids and when you go for any blood work it is on the top of the sheet.

i have a very rare blood type and i questioned my boyfriend about his for future knowlege when we have kids.

Christina77

And Wendy -

Just so that you know, he did bring this upon me since he was not honest with me when we first met. I stated that in my other post but if you haven't found it... I found out in the beginning of August that he was a JW, when I pushed the issue that I haven't met his parents after being with him for a year and a half... That is why I say that he brought this on ME. He knew from our first conversation that I was Roman Catholic and I asked him what his denomination was, and at that time he was in his stage that he was thinking about leaving so he told me that he didn't follow anything... and I as fine with that, once he told me that he did have a belief system... and didn't tell me that is why he brought this on ME... and it really hurts, and I was extrememly upset that we would have to break up.

ok, thanks again,
Christina

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Blood Type

by Christina77 in

is it normal for those that refuse blood to not know their blood type?

that is usually one of the first things that the hospital lets parents know about their kids and when you go for any blood work it is on the top of the sheet.

i have a very rare blood type and i questioned my boyfriend about his for future knowlege when we have kids.

Christina77

My previous post can be found if you open it up show all topics, instead of ones from the last week or so, or by clicking on the little thing next to my name that looks like it is a few pages stacked upon eachother. It is under Interfaith Relationship.

I do know that there is specialized testing if you are looking for your blood type, and I have my blood tested all the time due to my job as a health care professional. Also for other health reasons, because of my degree my MD often lets me look at the results and it is right on top, what my Type is... I don't know if this is always done at every doctors office, but I see it often enough and I see it on my patients charts on a regular basis that I assumed that this is a normal occurance.

I am here to get all the info that I can and I do take what I am given to better my knowlege... I am sorry if my writing doesn't sound that way, but I try to answer everything that is asked in the posts. And I really do want to hear what you have to say, it is very important to me.

By the way that he acts, I can't see how he is an active JW... that is what doesn't make sense to me. He brakes all the rules and I don't think that is right. And especially since he brakes them, even more so that his parents should know about me, and he should drop this false image that he has created by being such a good JW when he is not.

I have told him that I will not convert, and even moreso that I am raising my daughter Catholic. It would be too confusing to her, and would be horrible to deny her all that she has come to know as a normal life.

I am not looking to bring in another kiddie right now, I am thinking earliest in another 4 years... I want to finish my education and there is no way I can do that if I get pregnant again. I just posed the question because it came up in our converstation about our future and I asked him what his blood type was and he didn't know, and he has no desire to find out. I just wanted to know if this is a common practice.

With my daughters father, I got pregnant at the age of 17. Sex was pushed on me... he was 2 years older than I, had massive family problems, drank, cheated on me, was a pathological liar, couldn't hold a job, stole from me, etc. it was a very disturbing relationship. Unfortunately, I found out all of his problems after I got pregnant. I was very glad to get out of when I did...

I am very glad to find such a wonderful man as I have found in my boyfriend. He is everything that I have every wanted, and has been a great support for me. I really don't know what I would do without him. I have no intention on leaving him, and we have a wonderful relationship otherwise. I know this will cause us some major problems in the future. I am willing to coexist, but who knows what will be pushed on him by others and that is what I am scared to find out. And that is his problem, he is very scared and doesn't know what is going to happen. I just hope that because of his love for me, that he will find in his heart what caused to drift away in the first place when we became involved. It would probably be better in the long run.

Reality has set in for me, and that is why I am looking for help, and I do greatly respect all that has been given to me by all those that have posted replies.

Thanks Again,
Christina

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Blood Type

by Christina77 in

is it normal for those that refuse blood to not know their blood type?

that is usually one of the first things that the hospital lets parents know about their kids and when you go for any blood work it is on the top of the sheet.

i have a very rare blood type and i questioned my boyfriend about his for future knowlege when we have kids.

Christina77

Cassiline, that is horrible... I didn't realize that, but I really don't intend on bringing up that subject with anyone that has a direct effect on him, just to make sure that he isn't penalized... But are they going to ask that of us? and I guess we need to discuss what the answer will be so that we both are on the same page. And won't they take away his privilages just for dating me, and it will be moreso when we get married? I am preparing myself to deal with whatever comes my way, and I will stand my ground and I have already told him that he HAS to back me up, because he brought ME into this.

Thanks
Christina

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Blood Type

by Christina77 in

is it normal for those that refuse blood to not know their blood type?

that is usually one of the first things that the hospital lets parents know about their kids and when you go for any blood work it is on the top of the sheet.

i have a very rare blood type and i questioned my boyfriend about his for future knowlege when we have kids.

Christina77

I am well aware of that fact and I know that is what he is definitely avoiding letting anyone know about me... and it will be absolutely horrible. He also said when he told me that he was a JW, that I can't tell his parents that we are having sex, but they are going to assume that we are... I really don't think it is proper dinner conversation and I would feel very uncomfortable talking to them reguardless of anything to do with sex.... The most that I would ever believe I would tell them would be... oh we are trying to get pregnant or we are pregnant... end of story... and I am not pregnant just to make that clear... And I can't exactly hide the fact that I have had pre-maritial sex, since my proof looks at me everyday from my daughters eyes. And thank god I never married her father...

Why would it matter after we got married, they arn't going to be nice to us anyway... and it isn't like I would be walking around telling everyone that we slept together before we got married and especially since I know what they are going to do to him because of it.

Thank you for your advice... and all the advice that I can get is helping me so much, more than you can imagine... I need all I can get to help me prepare for my future.

Christina

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Blood Type

by Christina77 in

is it normal for those that refuse blood to not know their blood type?

that is usually one of the first things that the hospital lets parents know about their kids and when you go for any blood work it is on the top of the sheet.

i have a very rare blood type and i questioned my boyfriend about his for future knowlege when we have kids.

Christina77

Sirona -

The main post about my relationship is under Relationships/Dating/Sex, the post is Interfaith Relationship. He is 25 and I am 24, young but old enough to make that decision properly. Both his sister and brother got married younger than we are... and I am not his first sexual partner and neither is he mine... we have both had a good amount of experience... so I don't think it is guilt to marry me... We do truthfully love eachother, and hate being apart. My religion pushes 6 months to get engaged and 6 months to get married... but rarely is it used... People take their time and make sure that this is the right person.

Thanks again
Christina

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Blood Type

by Christina77 in

is it normal for those that refuse blood to not know their blood type?

that is usually one of the first things that the hospital lets parents know about their kids and when you go for any blood work it is on the top of the sheet.

i have a very rare blood type and i questioned my boyfriend about his for future knowlege when we have kids.

Christina77

Yes Larc, I do get it... and that is why I am trying to get more information from a neutral source on the issues that I need answered. Yes he is going to marry me... that is all I hear from him.... when WE get married.... When WE have kids... When WE live together... etc. etc. etc. And can't I pose a question? I know the blood transfusion thing is wrong and he will never have one... but didn't you discuss things that pertained to it when you took biology... ok kids go home and find out what your parents blood type is, so we can do a punnet square... and that is it... I need to know, I don't care if he has any reason to use it, and when it comes down to it when we do have kids... He has to get it tested... I am only thinking of the future... nothing soon... that is all... and these are things I need to know now, before we get married, it is issues like this that I need to base my reasoning on and if I can actually handle this... And I know why he hasn't introduced me to his parents... because he is scared of what his community will do to him and will only do it when we have everything settled that we can move in with eachother and support eachother as a family. Because I don't know what the outcome will be, but he is no going to give me up. Not now, not ever... no matter what they say!