Posts by Christina77

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What do you do at a birthday party?

by flower in

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please pardon my ignorance and stupidity but if i cant ask ya'll who can i ask?

thats good for a little girl right?

and i asked her mom if there was anything she needed help with.

Christina77

Birthday parties are the best thing in the world... I enjoy them more now, than when I was a kid... (I'm not or ever was a JW)

Believe me, there will be sugar, sugar, and more sugar... so don't bring anything that contains sugar, especially if it is for the parents... but usually people don't bring food to a birthday party unless it is a family party... then sometimes... but bringing it is ok... my advice, bring either a veggie platter with some sort of dip... I usually have carrots, celery, peppers, colliflower or brocholi.... and put in a lowfat ranch dressing in a bowl in the center... or a veggie dip found on the back of a lipton veggie soup box... or bring a fruit salad... most parents want to stay away from the stuff for the kids if they are trying to eat healthy... so they will be greatful to see veggies or fruit...

and for the gift... usually I don't spend over $20... something the kid will enjoy... even if you ask the parent that is fine, or ask another parent with a child the same gender and age what their kids like.... toys, games, puzzles are always good...

and most of all... Don't worry... you and your kid will HAVE FUN and can't wait to go to the next one!!!!

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I miss you all......

by Tatiana in

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i've been gone a while and just wanted to say hi and i'm still alive.

things are kind of bad now, but i'll be back for good soon.

special hello to cowboy and xena.

Christina77

MISSED YOU LOTS!!!! and was wondering where you went to!!! Don't make yourself such a stranger!!!

love as always
Christina

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3 somes

by Leander in

hopefully this topic is'nt to offensive for the people here.

but i've always been curious about it.

when i first graduated high school my first full time job was at a mailroom over at the northwestern memorial hospital in chicago.

Christina77

Been in one with 2 guys... men I already knew, and we were all friends... it was spur of the moment... it was an interesting experience, I am glad I did it... and it didn't hurt our friendship... but no, I would never do it again... especially since I am no longer single... I am comfortable with my parner and prefer one on one...

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my new pic (if this works)

by Yerusalyim in

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yerusalyim.

"vanity!

it's my favorite sin!".

Christina77

Hey Mike...

This really is a good pic... and is better than the one you sent to me with your lovely wife!!! Like the uniform!!! hehehe And have I ever mentioned that you really have a nicely shaped head!!!

love you!!!

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UP COMING HOLIDAYs

by QUEENIE in

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to us here is st. paddys day 3/17 and easter 3/31 which i want to wish u all the happiest of them all!!!!

p e a c e lov ya ((((((((loads of hugs too)))))))

Christina77

I have never seen Green Beer??? They make green bagels around here and I find it strange... I can't get myself to eat them...

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morning after pill, who's heard of it?

by peaceloveharmony in

interesting article about this.

one thing that surprised me was that people confuse morning after pills with ru-486 (or the abortion pill) which it is not.

as this is my local paper, the stats are all about minnesota and south dakota :) .

Christina77

Dazed and Confused...

Yes I did read the entire thread before I posted and I do know what the difference is!!! HELLO!!! you need to be a little more understanding and not so bitter... Condom broke... if pill existed I would have gotten it and taken it!!! you need to read things a little better before you harrass someone for their post!!! And I do think that it was a wonderful invention for those that did not plan to get pregnant used controception and then something went wrong... I would not agree that this was an abortion pill, and would not use it as such... but if it happens again then I would use it... I am glad that the FDA is approving more alternatives for women... and not have to go through with an unwanted pregnancy because the man didn't buy a good enough condom or notice that he wasn't covered anymore!!!

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morning after pill, who's heard of it?

by peaceloveharmony in

interesting article about this.

one thing that surprised me was that people confuse morning after pills with ru-486 (or the abortion pill) which it is not.

as this is my local paper, the stats are all about minnesota and south dakota :) .

Christina77

Yes, I have heard of it... and I think it is a really good idea for any woman that is sexually active to have it in her medicine cabinet... If it is availible, then why not... my daughter unfortunately was the product of an un-planned pregnancy... and if this pill was around then things would be very different then they are today... I love my daughter, so don't get me wrong... but having her at 18 was tough... and especially it should be on hand when the MD isn't around for a couple of days... makes it less of a hastle...

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Who makes the moves???

by Christina77 in

i am just curious as to who initiates sex in your relationships... is it the male or the female most of the time... or is it about an equal amount???

and is it a different view between those involved???

so how do each individuals do it, to show the other that they want it???

Christina77

Don't get me wrong... I absolutely love sex and especially with him... but I feel that the majority of the time it is like a mutual action started by kissing and then moving on to other things... but he seems to rush through all that and wants to jump right into it, when I want to wait a little longer... I guess men don't think about it unless we come in the door and say to them "DO ME NOW!!!" then they will get the hint... and he just wants me to rip his clothes off... this is why there is so many differences between the sexes... it is just too complicated... I do tell him that I love him and express my feelings in other ways... but when he tells me that we won't have sex tonight unless you initiate it.... and I think that is wrong... I have always felt that it has been mutual with our relationship... and when I do make it a point to initiate it, oh it is a bad time I want to watch the game or this or that show or I am working on my computer.... etc etc etc. if he wants sex at his convenience then he shouldn't complain about when I want it... if I only saw him every once in a while then I could see his point about initiating... but I see him at least 3 times a week and we have sex every single time no matter what, and this hasn't changed since the beginning of our relationship... we both know it is going to happen when either one of us starts kissing the other... and usually I start that... if I didn't want to have sex with him I would have told him so, but it just annoys me that he comes up with these things... he should be glad that he has a woman that satisfies him and wants sex just as often as he does...

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Who makes the moves???

by Christina77 in

i am just curious as to who initiates sex in your relationships... is it the male or the female most of the time... or is it about an equal amount???

and is it a different view between those involved???

so how do each individuals do it, to show the other that they want it???

Christina77

hehehe... good idea... but foreplay isn't the problem... he makes sure that I am ready that way... but he just rushes getting in there... maybe I just want to stay on the couch for a little while and enjoy his company a little while longer before getting naked... yet he also thinks that I should get naked as soon as I walk in the door... no way!!! I want to talk first and then get comfy, and think about sex after spending some quality time together first... otherwise we are very sexually compatible... he does a very good job at pleasuring me... and we have not had a problem until now... we have been having sex for almost 2 years and all of a sudden he brings this up... I could never imagine that there was any problem... who cares who initiates as long as the other reciprocates and it happens... right?

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Who makes the moves???

by Christina77 in

i am just curious as to who initiates sex in your relationships... is it the male or the female most of the time... or is it about an equal amount???

and is it a different view between those involved???

so how do each individuals do it, to show the other that they want it???

Christina77

Yes COMF... it does happen a lot on its own... yet because he is the one that gets up to direct me into the bedroom... I may not be ready at that point to jump into bed, that I want to enjoy what we are doing more on the couch.... and then move to the bedroom... he gets annoyed... and told me that I stuck my foot in my mouth and don't initiate sex enought that he wants to feel wanted more by me initiating... He is getting sex, so I don't know what he is complaining about... if he wasn't then he would have something to complain about... thanks