I know what you mean.I'm almost 33.I always thought I would wait till I was around 35 or so before I had a kid.But I always thought I would get married also.I haven't done either.I'm not sure either is in my life path.I wouldn't be upset if it happend but at this point in my life I don't think about getting married or having a kid.
My worst fear is being alone for the rest of my life.It really sucks to think like that but I have always thought I wasn't lovable.Not in a friend or family kind of way but in a romantic way.I think I scare men.I'm very independant and I know what I want and what I like and I don't put up with BS.Men either can't handle it or think they can tame me.Fact is I don't NEED a man I do WANT one but to me needs and wants are two very diffrent things.