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  Wish me luck

  by Abandoned in

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  tomorrow is my first day at my new job.

  i'm looking forward to it but i'm a little nervous as well.

  other than my own computers and a couple of friend's computers, i haven't done a whole lot of this kind of work since 2004. of course before that, i did it exclusively for eleven years.

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  noni1974

  Good luck.
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  Have You Ever Been Stalked?

  by eclipse in

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  i am not refering to the elders staking out a house to see if you're in there alone with another person who isn't your mate.. .

  i am talking about 'regular stalkers' who stalk you for the obsessive psychological reason of needing to be near you physically.. ever been followed?.

  ever had the feeling someone was looking through your windows?.

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  noni1974

  gee Noni, seems to me that when you make two public statements about your life there's not much wrong with asking a public question to clarify matters.....

  I still don't see how that would matter to you.Are you personally invested in her life??Do you want to ask her out or something??

  Why don't you just start a thread calling her out??She owes you an explanation being that your the post police right??
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  Have You Ever Been Stalked?

  by eclipse in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am not refering to the elders staking out a house to see if you're in there alone with another person who isn't your mate.. .

  i am talking about 'regular stalkers' who stalk you for the obsessive psychological reason of needing to be near you physically.. ever been followed?.

  ever had the feeling someone was looking through your windows?.

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  noni1974

  In the grand scheme of your life does it really matter that much??It doesn't in mine.If she is good for her.If she isn't who cares??

  Since your that interested in her personal life which doesn't affect you in any way why don't you ask her yourself instead of posting it on a thread??
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  What type of person are you attracted to now?

  by Layla33 in

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  i was just thinking about this the other day, about how my ideas of a romantic partner have changed since being a jw.. growing up, i thought i would marry a very upstanding jw, we would pioneer together, do missionary work, have children, see the world.

  (never had any thoughts about bethel, though.

  ) so what it boiled down to was a stepford husband, up tight, not the least bit sexual, closed minded bore.. so now that i have grown up, seen the world, been married (and actually picked a good man the first time, although it didn't work out), i just contrast that with what i am attracted to now.. i like them open minded, earthy, i love artistic types because i am a published writer, hair doesn't matter to me (long/short, bald, etc), challenges convention, very sexual, still like a traveling man.. i am just curious if you anyone else can compare and contrast how their ideas have changed since breaking out the group-think of the jw organization..

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  noni1974

  You like big guys too??

  I was going to edit that. I knew I should have. I knew I should have edited it.

  LOL.

  Nope, I like women with some extra baggage as they call it.

  That was my naughty sence of humor.
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  What type of person are you attracted to now?

  by Layla33 in

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  i was just thinking about this the other day, about how my ideas of a romantic partner have changed since being a jw.. growing up, i thought i would marry a very upstanding jw, we would pioneer together, do missionary work, have children, see the world.

  (never had any thoughts about bethel, though.

  ) so what it boiled down to was a stepford husband, up tight, not the least bit sexual, closed minded bore.. so now that i have grown up, seen the world, been married (and actually picked a good man the first time, although it didn't work out), i just contrast that with what i am attracted to now.. i like them open minded, earthy, i love artistic types because i am a published writer, hair doesn't matter to me (long/short, bald, etc), challenges convention, very sexual, still like a traveling man.. i am just curious if you anyone else can compare and contrast how their ideas have changed since breaking out the group-think of the jw organization..

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  noni1974

  Marilyn Monroe over weight yeah! Land whale no!

  She was not over weight.She was a normal sized woman.These modle type girls who are so under weight now are not sexy.They are scary and with 50% of American adults being over weight very rare.They want the Hottest stud out there.They can have them.Like I said pretty boys are big fat jerks now matter how good they look.I've had my fair share to know.
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  What type of person are you attracted to now?

  by Layla33 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i was just thinking about this the other day, about how my ideas of a romantic partner have changed since being a jw.. growing up, i thought i would marry a very upstanding jw, we would pioneer together, do missionary work, have children, see the world.

  (never had any thoughts about bethel, though.

  ) so what it boiled down to was a stepford husband, up tight, not the least bit sexual, closed minded bore.. so now that i have grown up, seen the world, been married (and actually picked a good man the first time, although it didn't work out), i just contrast that with what i am attracted to now.. i like them open minded, earthy, i love artistic types because i am a published writer, hair doesn't matter to me (long/short, bald, etc), challenges convention, very sexual, still like a traveling man.. i am just curious if you anyone else can compare and contrast how their ideas have changed since breaking out the group-think of the jw organization..

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  noni1974

  I like my guy to be over weight.I like to cuddle and it just feels better to do it with a big guy.

  Me too. The sex is soooo much better.

  You like big guys too??
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  Have You Ever Been Stalked?

  by eclipse in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am not refering to the elders staking out a house to see if you're in there alone with another person who isn't your mate.. .

  i am talking about 'regular stalkers' who stalk you for the obsessive psychological reason of needing to be near you physically.. ever been followed?.

  ever had the feeling someone was looking through your windows?.

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  noni1974

  So is Eclipse married or not married? In a relationship, not in a relationship....... not accusing....just wondering......

  In the grand scheme of your life does it really matter that much??It doesn't in mine.If she is good for her.If she isn't who cares??
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  What type of person are you attracted to now?

  by Layla33 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i was just thinking about this the other day, about how my ideas of a romantic partner have changed since being a jw.. growing up, i thought i would marry a very upstanding jw, we would pioneer together, do missionary work, have children, see the world.

  (never had any thoughts about bethel, though.

  ) so what it boiled down to was a stepford husband, up tight, not the least bit sexual, closed minded bore.. so now that i have grown up, seen the world, been married (and actually picked a good man the first time, although it didn't work out), i just contrast that with what i am attracted to now.. i like them open minded, earthy, i love artistic types because i am a published writer, hair doesn't matter to me (long/short, bald, etc), challenges convention, very sexual, still like a traveling man.. i am just curious if you anyone else can compare and contrast how their ideas have changed since breaking out the group-think of the jw organization..

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  noni1974

  Body type isn't that important.I just wantsomeone who gets me.

  Amen.

  I like my guy to be over weight.I like to cuddle and it just feels better to do it with a big guy.
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  What type of person are you attracted to now?

  by Layla33 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i was just thinking about this the other day, about how my ideas of a romantic partner have changed since being a jw.. growing up, i thought i would marry a very upstanding jw, we would pioneer together, do missionary work, have children, see the world.

  (never had any thoughts about bethel, though.

  ) so what it boiled down to was a stepford husband, up tight, not the least bit sexual, closed minded bore.. so now that i have grown up, seen the world, been married (and actually picked a good man the first time, although it didn't work out), i just contrast that with what i am attracted to now.. i like them open minded, earthy, i love artistic types because i am a published writer, hair doesn't matter to me (long/short, bald, etc), challenges convention, very sexual, still like a traveling man.. i am just curious if you anyone else can compare and contrast how their ideas have changed since breaking out the group-think of the jw organization..

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  noni1974

  I soon realised that pretty boys are big fat jerks no matter how good they look.

  Is the reverse true as well? That would make me a "pretty boy".

  Are you saying your a big fat jerk??
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  What type of person are you attracted to now?

  by Layla33 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i was just thinking about this the other day, about how my ideas of a romantic partner have changed since being a jw.. growing up, i thought i would marry a very upstanding jw, we would pioneer together, do missionary work, have children, see the world.

  (never had any thoughts about bethel, though.

  ) so what it boiled down to was a stepford husband, up tight, not the least bit sexual, closed minded bore.. so now that i have grown up, seen the world, been married (and actually picked a good man the first time, although it didn't work out), i just contrast that with what i am attracted to now.. i like them open minded, earthy, i love artistic types because i am a published writer, hair doesn't matter to me (long/short, bald, etc), challenges convention, very sexual, still like a traveling man.. i am just curious if you anyone else can compare and contrast how their ideas have changed since breaking out the group-think of the jw organization..

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  noni1974

  I like smart funny guys.I've latley been attracted to guys who are musicans and kind of artsy.I like nerdy types I guess.Hair doesn't matter to me.Body type isn't that important.I just wantsomeone who gets me.

  I used to like pretty boys but I soon realised that pretty boys are big fat jerks no matter how good they look.