I was just thinking about this the other day, about how my ideas of a romantic partner have changed since being a JW.
Growing up, I thought I would marry a very upstanding JW, we would pioneer together, do missionary work, have children, see the world. (Never had any thoughts about Bethel, though.) So what it boiled down to was a stepford husband, up tight, not the least bit sexual, closed minded bore.
So now that I have grown up, seen the world, been married (and actually picked a good man the first time, although it didn't work out), I just contrast that with what I am attracted to now.
I like them open minded, earthy, I love artistic types because I am a published writer, hair doesn't matter to me (long/short, bald, etc), challenges convention, very sexual, still like a traveling man.
I am just curious if you anyone else can compare and contrast how their ideas have changed since breaking out the group-think of the JW organization.