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I know the feeling that women have about being nervous because their husbands are doing things like watching x-rated stuff with the children, etc., because my ex did exactly that. However, all the elders care about that is that it puts a reproach on their cult. When I left my ex after a while, because he had a serious money management problem, and we were out on the street more that living anywhere, the elders told me that I had to take him back, but I didn't think I wanted to do that, because he did not have the mind to be a halfways decent husband and father. So this went on for about 7 months, with him harrassing me, and the elders condoning his harrassment, and so I moved out, going to meetings at another congregation, and moving around so he couldn't find me. During this time, he would not let our son live with him, because he was kicked out of the congregation where we were at the time I left him, but he did get our son a place to live in a house with a bunch of homosexuals, where our son was harrassed every day, with the homos saying things like, "your gey and you know it" etc. I didn't know what to do, except buy him a car so he could get away from his dad, and away from the homos. For me it was touch and go for awhile, but finally I bought myself a trailer, had it pulled out into a place where it took him a long time to find it, but he never harrassed me after that. He was living with a fellow bro at that time, for a year, and when the bro got married, my ex moved out, and took my son to WI with him, where my/our son got married, and he is doing well; my ex told him, at his grandpa's funeral, to tell me that I was scripturally free to remarry, because he was DF for having an affair with a worldly woman. I guess if you do it with another JW, it's not as bad as if you do it with a not-JW. My land sake, what the heck is this??