After 15 years, I thought my mom finally accepted that I am never coming back to the Kingdom Hall for any reason. Well ... I guess not.
This weekend, my nieces are staying with her because my JW sister (who is not speaking to me) is out of town. She invited me to go to lunch on Sunday. I said "sure"! She said, "Why don't you just come to the Kingdom Hall with us and we can go to lunch afterwards. You will see so and so there."
I am sure this sounds familiar with most of you.
I said, "Just let me know where you guys want to eat and I'll meet you there after your meeting."
She persisted, " I really wish you would go. I would love for you to meet some of my friends there, and it won't give me any false hope that you're coming back. You've told me before that's why you didn't want to ever come, and I have accepted that, so don't worry about that."
I said, "As I've said before, there are a million places in the world that I can also meet them besides the Kingdom Hall. Why don't you invite them to lunch with us!"
"Well, they would more likely come if you came to the meeting," she said.
"Yeah, I know that's how it works there and that's sad."
She finally dropped it, but sheesh! It sure doesn't sound like she's given up all hope!