Let's say an aunt or uncle dies.
Let's say you barely knew them.
Let's say their memorial service was held at the Kingdom Hall.
Let's say if you attend, you have to deal with shunning from family and JWs, and you are forced listen to them present their Paradise Promotional materials, and the dead person's "Earthly Hope™", and let's face it ... the heeby-jeebies of having to be in a Kingdom Hall again.
Would you put yourself through it? Why?