Posts by bitemeWT

as many of you know, i have a myspace.com account.. apparently, while i was out last night, someone called my mother and informed her of my activities on myspace.

my mother called and asked me for my login info, and was shocked to see me, and around 40 witnesses in my area having active profiles.

contents of these profile ranged from a few pictures to downright self-incrimination.

bitemeWT

I would say that the worse thing about my situation is that I see the pain and anquish which it causes my mother.

I saw it in my mother too. I stayed in way too long because I didn't want to break her heart. I finally had to live MY life.

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Trouble For Richie

by RichieRich in

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as many of you know, i have a myspace.com account.. apparently, while i was out last night, someone called my mother and informed her of my activities on myspace.

my mother called and asked me for my login info, and was shocked to see me, and around 40 witnesses in my area having active profiles.

contents of these profile ranged from a few pictures to downright self-incrimination.

bitemeWT

Indeed, women with non-JW partners have no status.

Before I was df'd, my mom took care of the accounts for the congregation. I was df'd 1800 miles away from the congregation that I grew up in at the age of 22. She tryed to hide it from her cong. Eventually, the news traveled thru the rumour mill. I don't know all the details of the crap that went down, but my mom got privately reproved and one of her closest friends got df'd. It looked very much like a case of "You're old. You're the only JW in your family now (I had been a reg. pioneer), we don't need you anymore."

I wish I had been deprogrammed when this all happened. I might have been able to get her out. Now... no way.

Richie, you give em heck. Oh, and tell them to bite you. (only use the last piece of advice as the last resort. )

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Trouble For Richie

by RichieRich in

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as many of you know, i have a myspace.com account.. apparently, while i was out last night, someone called my mother and informed her of my activities on myspace.

my mother called and asked me for my login info, and was shocked to see me, and around 40 witnesses in my area having active profiles.

contents of these profile ranged from a few pictures to downright self-incrimination.

bitemeWT

On his profile it says "Ex JW" and he was kicked out for being gay

Awh, dang... all the cute one's are gay!

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Pictures from home...remembering why I don't miss it.

by wanderlustguy in

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here's a couple of pics that bring back memories...the shop my dad own that i worked in for a couple of bucks an hour less than anyone else, even after i moved out.

and the swimming pool he built for "us" (mainly so young girls would come over and be half naked).. funny, people used to think it was so cool because it was the only pool around town...now it's so pathetic to me.

wlg

bitemeWT

I don't know much about your life there, but to me, the pictures don't really look that bad... just life out in the country. But my "home" pictures are depressing for me too, so I understand.

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Trouble For Richie

by RichieRich in

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as many of you know, i have a myspace.com account.. apparently, while i was out last night, someone called my mother and informed her of my activities on myspace.

my mother called and asked me for my login info, and was shocked to see me, and around 40 witnesses in my area having active profiles.

contents of these profile ranged from a few pictures to downright self-incrimination.

bitemeWT

Well, I see "Jason" has his tie on at least!

Yeah, I take a bible study with him too! How about the "Youth" book? He can tell me all about the evils of masturbation.

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God help GREEDY meat beating 12 y.o. boys from the ELDERS

by hamsterbait in

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the information about the elders school disturbed me.

how many little boys, baptized way before they should be, will be permanently damaged in their sexual life because a dub parent turned them in to the elders because they were caught beating off to boobies in a newspaper or magazine?

even if they are not df, the questioning alone would do irreparable damage to self esteem?

bitemeWT

How many JW parents do you think will subject their son to this?

Sons? How about turning their daughters in?

That's what my mother did to me. I think I was 8. Thank Ned they never took me into the back room. I would have died! But what they did do was give a local needs talk on the "Big M". That mixed with my mother reading every JW article she could find on the subject was definately emotional abuse. The next time I gave into the urge, it sent me into my first bout with depression. I was too embarrassed to confess, but I thought if I didn't confess, I would die at Armageddon. I decided that I would rather die than confess to someone that was like a grandfather to me. Gawd, it screwed with my head!

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The New "In-Phrase" - with greediness

by stillajwexelder in

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from the elders school it appears as if the new phrase on everybodies lips is "with greediness" have i got this correct?

bitemeWT

Do they really ask for all that *&^% detail?

Yes, they do. It took a few trips to the back room for me to figure it out.

Also, a couple of elder's daughters clued me in that that was what they expected. Hmmmm, I wonder why they knew?

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Pioneer Sisters & Field Service

by prophecor in

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some of you sisters were so adept at going out in service, that it seemed as if you really didn't need a brother, who was willing to take the lead.

many of you were already well suited in marking out and mapping out the territory, and sometimes big brother such and such, who just happened to be newly baptised, but is now in a position to serve shows up and begins to make himself feel useful.

i mean, this is how the climbing up the ladder begins for us brothers, isn't it?.

bitemeWT

Oh, I didn't mind because I was 19 in a congregation FULL of young ~~bucks~~ eligible brothers. See, I was on the HUNT and didn't mind batting my eyes and looking like I needed someone to lead me around like I was helpless.

I even let one of them drive my car. But then his none baptized girlfriend got jealous and beat me up. She was upset that he was spending so much time out in field service with me. Well, he WAS auxilary pioneering that month. How was he supposed to get his time in? Making out with her?!

Anyway, I'm rambling. No, I didn't mind but I was young and dumb.