Well, Pthttthttttt! Oh! You weren't talking to us...I get it.
Seriously, I know lots of people like that.
i love these type of people, because they are so easy to see through.
you know the type, they meet you and they're all nice and all, but because your not important enough they don't really want to be your friend.
in fact, they probably got introduced to you by someone who is important and to make that person happy they give you five minutes of conversation or maybe listen to a thought or two, and then they are off to the next person and your nothing.
Well, Pthttthttttt! Oh! You weren't talking to us...I get it.
Seriously, I know lots of people like that.
have i been reading the wrong threads or have we had a shortage of postings by lt lately?
ross you world traveling again?
hurry back and fill us in on your adventures, some of us live vicariously through those stories!!.
He emailed me a few days ago, but only included a subject line...I hope he is okay.
AuldSoul
i have noticed that recent watchtower magazines (15 november & 1 december, 2005) do not have the article "questions from readers".. anyone have information on this?
if the watchtower has discontinued the feature, it would infer that the "deeper things" are no longer a concern to the jw masses.
or is it testimony to a cinch on information control?
Maybe they could try the old ones again with some honesty and candor. Would be a fresh take on them.
AuldSoul
so i finally decided to get my a** to the library and read some real research on cults.
the book i'm starting with is "psychodynamic perspectives on religion, sect and cult.
in the introduction they mention margaret thaler singer's definition of a destructive cult as an organization in which:a leader claims divinity or special relationship with god.
Proplog2, when a child is brought up in a destructive environment that is emotionally demeaning they may not develop enough sense of self to find their way out. In that case their environment can hurt them emotionally. The same is true of someone who at any emotionally weak point in life is preyed upon by a cult that offers a "way out," a sense of belonging and purpose. Such an organization can emotionally damage a person.
To infer that emotional damage caused by environmental factors is not actual inflicted harm evidences a pre-scientific mind. To the degree that someone is rendered less capable of coping with emotional trauma by their experiences, they are harmed.
AuldSoul
for those of you who will be disgusted that i even attended the meeting, let alone allow my son to give his first public talk tonight, please, spare me the shouting messages.
i take full responsibility for what i experienced this evening.
yet, i feel the need to share this experience that has me enraged.
No negative from me either, but they are really trying to separate his love from you in an active way. Here's my two centavos. you gotta go slow deprogramming your son. What does he like to do? Get him doing that on meeting nights and times for service. Don't make a big deal about it. Encourage him in every way you can to respect his grandparents and to think for himself.
AuldSoul
i have just witnessed for myself one of the most hypocritical scenes ever before in my life!
my sister's ex husband, ( father to 3 boys, 12, 15, 20 years) commited suicide a few days ago.
he has been a jehova's witness all of his life and and also suffered from bi polar disorder for most of it also, particularly bad in the past 3 years.
I have seen similar things in this congregation. "Love among themselves?" Pshaw! Yeah, an outpouring of love in death. Lots of opportunities to impress worldly relatives with the love.
okay, first thank you to the greastest degree for the warm welcome and insight you all have given itis and me since i've started visiting your very apostate site.
my life as a jw.
it starts with my maternal grandmother.
Thank you SOOOO much. I am in the situation ithinkisee was in. My wife is now starting to really study for herself. I am so hopeful. Your experience is helping a lot of people.
AuldSoul
hello everyone.
have recently met someone, amazing person!
however have many questions about jw's and wt.
Our friend Cordelia is dealing with the issues your friend would be dealing with. She is wracked by guilt and is considering whether to separate from her boyfriend and return to JWs just pretending to keep a relationship with her parents.
It may do you some good to get a good understanding of her pain: http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/100361/1.ashx
Just a suggestion.
AuldSoul
if you were granted by god to have one super power, what would it be and why?
The ability to know what a persons real motives are, at will, regardless of distance, just by concentrating on that person.
here is an illustration for those who are jws and for lurkers:.
suppose a man approached you with these words, "i am god's prophet.
an important one, too.
LOL at TopHat ! Yes, with slightly different wording that is what I am arriving at myself.