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  Grandma Question

  by firefightersean in

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  i am a lurker, i was dfd for getting my ex wife pregnant before we were married..long story but anyway.

  my mom is a dub and my non-believing grandma died and we are arrainging for a short graveside service as my gma didn't want to have anything elaborate.

  i have already talked to my brothers and sisters, who are try to maintain a relationship with my mom, about not wanting any dub crap at the service...my family wrote back saying this:.

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  firefightersean

  thanks everyone for the kind words. it is funny how you can find so much comfort in a place that dubs call evil
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  Grandma Question

  by firefightersean in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am a lurker, i was dfd for getting my ex wife pregnant before we were married..long story but anyway.

  my mom is a dub and my non-believing grandma died and we are arrainging for a short graveside service as my gma didn't want to have anything elaborate.

  i have already talked to my brothers and sisters, who are try to maintain a relationship with my mom, about not wanting any dub crap at the service...my family wrote back saying this:.

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  firefightersean

  thanks KLS i love to help I think that is why i was a JW for so long, but then i realized that i was hurting now helping..ha...anyway

  My mom is a big into drama and she always brings JW's to back her up. It will just be my family at the gravesite nothing with any religion really, so what i am worried is that she will bring dubs to the gravesite to "comfort" her. M

  My plan now is to say she should refrain from saying anything about JW's at the grave site but she can say whatever she wants later at dinner. If she brings up dub stuff i will question her on UN scandal so forth.

  In reality she probably wont come have dinner as I can't eat in the same house as her as I have the demons.
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  Grandma Question

  by firefightersean in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am a lurker, i was dfd for getting my ex wife pregnant before we were married..long story but anyway.

  my mom is a dub and my non-believing grandma died and we are arrainging for a short graveside service as my gma didn't want to have anything elaborate.

  i have already talked to my brothers and sisters, who are try to maintain a relationship with my mom, about not wanting any dub crap at the service...my family wrote back saying this:.

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  firefightersean

  she was my mom's mom, but my mom and dad are Divorced so he wont be there. he is a PO or CO now? i dont know never talk to him, because he doesn't talk to my sister or me.

  being an EMT i am confident that there is life after death due to many things, but i know my GMA is watching down on me from above. We had a very close relatonship.

  thanks for the help. i want to say no JW but my family wants to give because she still holds power over them.
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  Grandma Question

  by firefightersean in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am a lurker, i was dfd for getting my ex wife pregnant before we were married..long story but anyway.

  my mom is a dub and my non-believing grandma died and we are arrainging for a short graveside service as my gma didn't want to have anything elaborate.

  i have already talked to my brothers and sisters, who are try to maintain a relationship with my mom, about not wanting any dub crap at the service...my family wrote back saying this:.

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  firefightersean

  I am a lurker, I was DFd for getting my EX wife pregnant before we were married..long story but anyway. My mom is a dub and my non-believing grandma died and we are arrainging for a short graveside service as my gma didn't want to have anything elaborate.

  I have already talked to my brothers and sisters, who are try to maintain a relationship with my mom, about not wanting any dub crap at the service...my family wrote back saying this:

  "Mom is a JW..we know this accept it.. whatever.. she wont have a soap box at the dinner, however she probably will say things like grandma will be resarected or whatever, thats her hope,, fine whatever.. she will have to respect grandmas and our views likewise, she wont make a sermon out of the deal...Ill see to that. If you need me to talk directly specificly about something let me know"

  i want to set limits on what happens because i know my gma wouldn't want to any religous junk, but am not sure what to say. i know i dont want any JW's there other then my mom.

  this is the part of why the relgion is so freaking dangerous. i should be able to pick the phone an tell my my mom to chill out, but because i am "unclean" she wont listen to anything i say....

  any thoughts...and i have read probably 1,000 posts before replying. :)