well let me see... #1 Field Service
2 - going to boring a** meetings
3 - preparing for boring a** meetings
4 - preparing and giving talks
5 - commenting at meetins (always shy and it made me very self-conscience)
6 - feeling like an outsider in the real world - feeling like an outsider in the cong due to cliques who wouldnt accept you
7 - only encouraged to pioneer or pursue JW goals - Never encouraged to pursue a career that was fulfilling for you as an individual
8 - recreation choices being condemed (parties, going to clubs, watching R-rated movies)
9 - freezing out in friged tempertures in FS trying to place dumb magazines that you haven't even read yourself
10 - the gossiping and backbiting - being spyed on whenever you were dating someone
11 - having to choose another goofball JW to marry since you had to only "marry in the Lord"
12 - going to outdoor conventions in the blazing heat WITH KIDS
13 - Phoney smiling JWs at the hall that you knew didn;t give a flying f**k about you really
14 - feeling guilty about EVERYTHING and never measuring up
15 - the whole DF/DA thing (never agreed with that at all)
16 - walking to the KH when I had no ride
17 - JW funerals - when the dead one is not even acknowleded (talk is only about serving Jah, blah, blah, blah)
18 - horrible "Kingdom Melodies" - JWs have the worst religious music of any religion IMO
19 - having to wear pantyhose in the summer
I'll stop here ----but there is so much more!!