Renaiia,
I sincerely hope that you never have to expeience the cult aspects of the WT. Apparently, you just haven't been burned yet, so you just can't understand why people say it is a cult. Many people are born and die in a cult and never have any problems and are perfectly happy all their lives.
But, what you say about how "normal" JWs are (fasion conscience teen, little old lady, happy Minestreial servant) can be said about any cult. I know a scientologist who is the most normal guy in the world. In fact I didn't even know he was a scientologist for years! He never talks about it. He's just a normal guy. An old room mate of mine was a member of a Japanese cult infamous for recommending violent response aganst ex-members (drawing a blank on the name but they are discussed at freedom of mind.) There was simply nothing strange about her aside from her daily chanting which I joined in on often and I really enjoyed. I actually miss hearing her chanting in the mornings, it was like beautiful singing.
To expect that cult members take on some kind of zombie persona is to completely miss the point of what a cult is. You have been on this site for some time and have plenty of information that should and probably is causing much cognitive dissonance in your mind. But you are quite adept at neutralizing all dissenting information. I am actually impressed with how you calmly shoot down anything that smacks of criticism or accuses JWs of being a mind control cult.
Or, is it that you just have never fully comprehended what a cult is? You would probably benefit from studying OTHER cults, because as long as the subject at hand is JWs, frankly, you just are not going to see it... ever.
The reason why I believe that you just are not capable of detecting cult behavior in JWs is because you are, at least mentally, still a cult member. As long as you are an affected cult member, you are still intellectually captive, blinded, and incapable of seeing cult phenomena. In fact, you have already shut down while reading this sentence, and have gone into defense mode. This sentence is currently bouncing right off of your forehead. It is not getting through. From this point on, I am no longer talking to Renaiia, but I am talking to a cult member. And as we know, cult members do not know they are cult members.
So, this post, since it can not be appreciated by Renaiia, hopefully will help someone else. It will have no effect on you whatsoever. Nothing, I mean nothing, will ever convince you you are a cult member. Nothing ever convinces any cult member. They have to experience an awakening, actually losing some of their cult personality, before they can entertain the possibility that they are a cult member.
i hope you stay on this board though. I think it is healthy for the board to have JW defenders. after all, it would be kind of boring to have everyone agree with everyone else. I am curious though about why you are here. Maybe of I read some of your other posts I might get a picture. But, unerstand that it is pretty frustrating to read your posts because if you are right about JWs just being another religion, that kind of makes myself and others here who have had their lives ruined by the cult look like crazies that just cpuldn't get along with their normal religion and normal church members. If you are right, and JWs are just normal people in a normal religion, that even makes the verty existence of this site seem silly.
Think about that.