Goldminer! My brother was basically "disfellowshipped" for no apparent reason. The lack of love that the Society showed him was an "eye-opener for me! They never called on him, or checked on how he was doing or anything! I still can't believe it.
Jesus taught us to love each other- when one makes a mistake doesn't make sense that we should love them even more and forgive them!
The apostle Paul talks about this in Corinthians. There are certain cases where a person is to be "given up to Satan" so that they will hopefully repent. Paul says.. "to save their souls." What Paul meant was that-if- they repented they were to be allowed to join in! My experience is that the Society shuns them completely! This is wrong! Most people that are disfellowshipped get completely discouraged and turn away even more! Just my thoughts.... Biddie