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  Need advice on Provoke

  by peachmellon in

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  i really need advice on easily being provoked

  i married my husband because we both had the same faith and goals.

  however when the computer age evolved my husband became addicted to the chat rooms, met a woman and had an affair with her.

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  peachmellon

  Thank you all so much. Sorry I am just getting back to you all. You have provided much helpful advice.

  I just feel like nothing.. very numb.

  I dont know why he is so loveless, he pushes me to anger all the time. In the past, for 3 months straight I recall wring down each situation that occured. I presented it to the elders and they were SHOCKED to see that everyday for 3 months how he argued or mistreated me for 3 months. I even explained to the elders that he does not give me no money for no bills. I pay the mortgage and utilities and the food bill. They said that I make more money than he and that I should be understanding. He is a truck driver and I am an junior accountant. His field as a truck driver is truly not lacking with money. But I am to be understanding and just pay for everything. I am no good mentally or emotionally. He is trying to destroy every emotion in me. and like someone said. Yes he is a Cruel B*******. Plays mind games and with my emotions. The elders know of all of this, yet they tell me to hang in because Jehovah hates a divorcing..

  I am in tears again
  i am sorry i have to close.
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  Need advice on Provoke

  by peachmellon in

  1. social
  2. current

  i really need advice on easily being provoked

  i married my husband because we both had the same faith and goals.

  however when the computer age evolved my husband became addicted to the chat rooms, met a woman and had an affair with her.

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  peachmellon

  THank you all so much

  It seems like he waited till both my parents died then out of no where he became mean towards me. He knows how close I was to my parents, yet he throws in my face that his parents are still living. And all the elders keep saying is that Jehovah hates a divorcing. I dont know what to do but you all gave me wonderful advise so I can think about.

  Thank you all so much

  by bye for now
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  17

  Need advice on Provoke

  by peachmellon in

  1. social
  2. current

  i really need advice on easily being provoked

  i married my husband because we both had the same faith and goals.

  however when the computer age evolved my husband became addicted to the chat rooms, met a woman and had an affair with her.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
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  peachmellon

  Thank you so much I am trying to sort what to do without hurting Jehovah..
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  Need advice on Provoke

  by peachmellon in

  1. social
  2. current

  i really need advice on easily being provoked

  i married my husband because we both had the same faith and goals.

  however when the computer age evolved my husband became addicted to the chat rooms, met a woman and had an affair with her.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
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  peachmellon

  I really need advice on easily being provoked

  I married my husband because we both had the same faith and goals. However when the computer age evolved my husband became addicted to the chat rooms, met a woman and had an affair with her. The elders did nothing. They are fully aware of how terrible he treats me at home. We have not had sex for 10 years now and I am yearning beyond the norm.

  But he argues at me all the time, screaming , hitting, pushing all exist within my house hold. It is so bad till now I have to curse him out weekly. He provokes me to no end. All the elders say is for me to hang in here. I really want to file for a divorce and I wont marry again. Just will await on the hope of living in a Paradise.

  Can anyone give me any advice here. please