Need advice on Provoke

by peachmellon 17 Replies latest social current

  • peachmellon
    peachmellon

    I really need advice on easily being provoked

    I married my husband because we both had the same faith and goals. However when the computer age evolved my husband became addicted to the chat rooms, met a woman and had an affair with her. The elders did nothing. They are fully aware of how terrible he treats me at home. We have not had sex for 10 years now and I am yearning beyond the norm.

    But he argues at me all the time, screaming , hitting, pushing all exist within my house hold. It is so bad till now I have to curse him out weekly. He provokes me to no end. All the elders say is for me to hang in here. I really want to file for a divorce and I wont marry again. Just will await on the hope of living in a Paradise.

    Can anyone give me any advice here. please

  • kid-A
    kid-A

    Welcome to the board.

    Why stay with somebody like that? I dont have the full story but if it were me, I would have left a long long time ago! Good luck

  • stillajwexelder
    stillajwexelder

    Wow - no sex for 10 years - if he is witholding the marriage due then the elders need to know. My advice is - Divorce him -find somebody else - and screw what the elders say. Youi deserve some happiness

  • stillajwexelder
    stillajwexelder

    welcome to the board By The Way

  • peachmellon
    peachmellon

    Thank you so much I am trying to sort what to do without hurting Jehovah..

  • Satanus
    Satanus

    I wouldn't call what you have a marriage. Maybe a fight club.

    S

  • Cellist
    Cellist

    Hi, welcome to the board. Why would Jehovah be hurt by you leaving an abusive marriage? How can you think an abusive relationship is bringing any kind of glory to God?

    Cellist

  • AuldSoul
    AuldSoul

    Kid-A?? AgggghhHHHHHH! KID-A IS A MASON!!!!!

    RUUUUUUUUUUUNNN!!!!

  • AuldSoul
    AuldSoul

    Oh, welcome peachmelon. The Mason thing is a running joke...

    AuldSoul

    P.S. RUuuuuuuuunnnnNNNNN!!

  • Purza
    Purza
    All the elders say is for me to hang in here.

    The elders are NOT acting with your best interest in mind. If it were me, I would have gone after the first hit and/or the affair. Do you honestly think you would be hurting jehovah if you left an abusive relationship?!?!?! Quietly put your assets in order and go hire an attorney.

    Purza

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