"--i know that my thinking needs adjusting in some areas." - now, you just stop using Witness catch-phrases!
MSG20, Forums like this can be very difficult to negotiate first off. Because we can't see facial expressions, tone of voice or all the other nuances, we tend to imagine those qualities when we read your words.
If we imagine someone we don't like, speaking your words, you will get a terse / bad/ angry response.
All the best, I think you're going to be O.K.