devil 666 (ooh so very scary),
"...no disrespect..." i went back and read some of your previous posts, especially the "how can you" thread where it is apparrent you don't know where you are(jwd) or who you are talking to. the only respect i can find in any of your posts is an inflated respect for your own opinion. i didn't read them all so if there have been any in which you showed any respect for gays, jws, or your daughter as an individual, or for that matter anything except your own voice i will gladly go back and read them. if you knew anything about jws you would know that this attitude is rampant among the hardcore true believers and disliked by everyone else. are you sure you aren't an elder?
if your daughter is not baptized, she is still living by your standards, married or not. if she is studying and wants to get baptized she will have to have her marital status legalized. around here that can be as simple as filing papers at the court house, no marriage ceremony is required. in this sense it is just like any organization they have rules(or laws if you will) that you obligate yourself to...or not. at any rate it is apparrent that your daughter is of an age to decide for herself. if you really want to lose your daughter then continue to demean her decisions and demand that she abide by yours...why do you think so many people are leaving the wtbts? you can accomplish the same thing with your family that the org does with theirs, just hold on to the same attitudes.