Wow! This thread tells me that I'm not flucking up as bad as I thought while dealing with all my baggage from the JW's when my kids were little.
I have never understood this kind of behavior, not sure I want to. What kind of woman would hurt her babies' feelings on purpose? When you have a child, you're life DOES go on hold. Who wouldn't understand that?
Now I'm about to be 43. My kids are 17 and 14. Yes, I do kinda have my life back. I have learned so much from them.
I think the JW's just have a problem with AGING! Armageddon is coming so we don't have to get old, we can stay pretty forever! Give me a few wrinkles and a happy life any day.