on tuesday night my son (30) went into hospital with what turn out to be appendicitis.
his wife called me wednesday morning and i went up to the hospital.
he was due in surgery not long after i got there.
Gordy, sounds like typical shunning, but I am curious. You refer to her as your JW wife. Assuming you don't have other wives in different religions, it sounds like you're still married to her but haven't seen her for 3 or 4 years.
Did I understand that correctly? Could there be other issues she has with you? Like the time she came home and caught you with two hookers?? etc.?
...so annalice and i were discussing this topic the other day and now i pose it to you.
remember all those talks from the platform where the brothers encouraged the congregation that as far as putting in hours in the field ministry that we must remember that if brother a can only put in 5 hours a month and he puts that 5 hours a month in, then he is doing all that he can (applause, applause) and if brother b can put in 50 hours a month and he does, there is no difference between brother a and brother b, because they are both doing all they can in jehovah's work.. well then, why is it that if brother a faithfully puts in that 5 hours a week, he can't carry microphones, he can't lead the congregation in prayer and he can't hold any priveleges, because he doesn't put in hours that match the national average??
isn't that making brother a feel like shit and that he is unworthy?
Greendawn, your point is well taken.
I think it reveals why so many men who are in lowly trades, labor, janitorial, etc. find fulfillment in the org. They are in a completely different pecking order than they are in the "world". These priviledges mean everything to them. This is why it is so common to find what I call the 'Watchtower Nazi' brothers to whom their position in the org. or on committees is the balm for their bruised egos as men.
we all know that one is coming.
with the old time gb all dead or incapacitated, .
the new wave of jw leadership has to come up .
Good topic. A lot of these replies are dead on.
My feeling is that the fatal flaw in the JW business plan has always been the Armageddon/ two classes scenario. It has also been the core of their appeal. Most all other organized religions, pagan or Christian, teach that the payoff comes after death. This is critical to the marketing plan. This is fool proof, no refunds, no returns.
Even Orthodox Judaism avoids setting a time frame on the coming of the Messiah, thus, it's shelf life is indefinite.
I feel the WTS has already taken major steps, like redefining 1914, toward getting themselves out of the corner they had painted themselves into. I feel strongly that they are going to continue to dial in their followers to an open ended ,"pie in the sky in the sweet bye and bye" scenario.
yep, you heard me correctly.
in the spring and fall of every year at our community fire hall there are three meals held to support and help out the fire company, ambulance, and one for the lion's club.
now, every good jw knows not to support worldly organizations, right?
NSM,
wonderful post and said well.
Thanks and hope to see more of your posts
yep, you heard me correctly.
in the spring and fall of every year at our community fire hall there are three meals held to support and help out the fire company, ambulance, and one for the lion's club.
now, every good jw knows not to support worldly organizations, right?
Apology,
I didn't read carefully enough.
Your not baptized and you go to meetings a few times a year. Sounds like your doing fine. But I wonder, do you have peers that you are trying not to rock the boat with?
yep, you heard me correctly.
in the spring and fall of every year at our community fire hall there are three meals held to support and help out the fire company, ambulance, and one for the lion's club.
now, every good jw knows not to support worldly organizations, right?
Wing Commander, Sir!
With all due respect, sir, wonderful post. You should read it sometime and ask yourself what the hell your waiting for. You say your wife is not a JW? You obviously are very good at expressing yourself. I would really like to read your post explaining what is holding you back from writing a Dis-ass letter that would peel the paint off the walls of the Kindgom Hall. You certainly have abundant material right here on this site.
Best to you
hi all, i have come across some very important information and i wish to share it with anyone who wants to change their life for the better, i want you to know i have nothing to gain from this.
i am very greatful to all of you who have contributed to helping me on this journey which began a little more than a year ago, you guys are grrrreat, thank you.
http://www.thesecret.tv/.
"The Secret" in one act. (or, as it was called in the original wingding tongue - The Secre
WIDESHOT
The scene opens in a doctors examination room. A middle aged man sits on the edge of the exam table in his undershirt. In front of him stands an older man, the doctor, in a white jacket with a stethescope around his neck.
SINGLE SHOT OF PATIENT
patient: "When I do this (raises left arm at the shoulder and rotates it in a circular motion) it hurts like hell. Is there any thing I can do to alleviate the pain?"
REVERSE ANGLE OF DOCTOR
doctor: "Yes... Don't do that"
TWO SHOT AS IN OPENING SCENE
patient pauses thoughtfully for a moment then says: "Gee...that might just work! I'll try it. What, do I owe you doc?"
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just thought i would let you all know, that as part of my ongoing theocratic warfare strategy i placed 6 magazines this morning.
i will be recording about 20 on my time slip though
I always wished there was a place to mark down 'not-at-homes' on the monthly report. I did really well with those. I included barking dogs in the yard as being a not at home.
i had drinks with a friend of mine who is still active in the "lie".. i asked him point blank if he still believes that the "end" will come in his life time.
he grew up as a dub and is in his early 40's.
he answered that he hopes so.
Fear of the whole shunning thing and it's ramifications (spouse,family friends and possibly even employment) holds a lot of people captive. Playing along is way easier than upsetting the above apple carts.
Add in to all the above pressures the fact that your entire, institutionalized way of life, such as the GB and other 'career' JW's have lived all their life is part of the sacrifice and you begin to appreciate why a member of the GB who makes the "truth sausage" and knows what goes into it has to bite his tongue and pretend it's all wholesome spiritual food that is going into the Watchtower. Yesiree, no rodent droppings, insect larvae or spoiled meat trimmings in this spiritual food!!
to the household of god that is israel, and all those who go with... may you have peace!.
perhaps this apology is long overdue, and hwile it should not only come from me, but from all who took part at whatever point in their lives, i hope it will have some positive impact on those who may need it:.
on behalf of the watchtower bible and tract society of whoever they are now of whom i was a former member, i apologize.
Thank you, AGuest, and I want to apologize right back at you.
I am truly sorry that you, also, went through all that deception, immersion in hate...etc. by the WT Society. Like you, I'm sorry for all the wasted time and energy you have put into a deadend cult. But I especially want to apologize and express my deepest regrets for your ongoing confusion about believing there is an intelligent, divine being, aka -"GOD". Unfortunately, this can be one of the sad aftereffects of being CULTivated. Hopefully, in time, you will be able to finish the balance of your awakening process and come out into the wonderful light of reality.
