Finally Free said.....I was molested by a woman before I was 5.
I'm so sorry that happened to you, I know what it did to my sons life and mine
all boe have just got a letter telling them to encourage all parents to be more on guard with their children.
suggestions such as not letting your young children go to the toilet on their own, not working with older men on their own and not leaving children in the car on rv's and calls un attended.
the letter basically instructed the elders to remind all family heads that its their responsibility to protect their children whilst at and away from the hall etc.
Finally Free said.....I was molested by a woman before I was 5.
I'm so sorry that happened to you, I know what it did to my sons life and mine
all boe have just got a letter telling them to encourage all parents to be more on guard with their children.
suggestions such as not letting your young children go to the toilet on their own, not working with older men on their own and not leaving children in the car on rv's and calls un attended.
the letter basically instructed the elders to remind all family heads that its their responsibility to protect their children whilst at and away from the hall etc.
Ironic as women molest too. So can older kids.
You are so right!! I did not realize this fact until I learned that my son had been molested by two teenage female members of my immedient family when my son was only 5 years old...when he was in his thirties he was in therapy and finally told me what had been done to him and by whom. It ruined his life! Children should be watched and protected from everyone to the extent possible by their parents, and that includes family members and disgusting as it is even from some of their own parents and siblings!
in certain primitive societies it is believed that dancing brings rain.
this belief stems from the fact somebody (long, long ago) was dancing when rain broke out.
the next time there was a drought, dancing was begun.
Great post Terry
Thank you!
Grammy
that is one of my favorite lines from the matrix.
the lines proceeding it are: .
fear.
You cannot undo the past and you cannot fix people. How many times must I learn this lesson?
Coolhandluke, thank you for your eloquent post...
I'm 65 years old and I'm just realizing how true your words above are...well, at least I'm learning, however slowly...I'm learning.
Grammy
http://www.jw-media.org/newsroom/index.htm?content=../vnr/index.htm.
there used to be three videos under "child abuse" in the right column.
the one that isn't linked from there anymore is the "progressive understanding" video.
Thank you Merry,
I appreciate it.
http://www.jw-media.org/newsroom/index.htm?content=../vnr/index.htm.
there used to be three videos under "child abuse" in the right column.
the one that isn't linked from there anymore is the "progressive understanding" video.
Anyone have any information on the lady in the video here
http://www.jw-media.org/vnr/2122827332/716353.htm
Dr. M. Ruth Infante
All I could find was this....
Dr. M Bruce Infante
Psychiatrist
4660 Kenmore Ave Ste 420
Alexandria, VA
on the video she says...
"Dr. Infante: I think that's a very good policy, that the elders essentially would take charge of
the situation of reporting the abuse to the authorities if there is no adult in
authority, any other adult in authority to do that, to protect the child."
ok last night while sobering up from a long day of drinking i started thinking; could doctor/patient confidentiality protect one from being dissfellowshipped?
that is, could one tell a doctor he wants a b.t., but must keep it secret.
the doctor would have a right to keep the procedure from the family or any other interested parties.
That is, could one tell a doctor he wants a B.T., but must keep it secret.
I suppose that could be arranged between the patient and his/her doctor, however if any JW employee of the hospital had access to the person's medical files they would be sure to read it and report said JW patient to the elders. I know of a case where that exact thing happened to JW in my congregation a few years before I left.
i got this email this am.
sounds exactly like robert king, our old "you know"!.
randy.
But anyway, you and General Kofi-Anan take care.
Kofi-Anan is not the UN Secretary-General, Ban Ki-moon is
this person must not read the newspaper or watch the news on television.
no, not that kind of ding dong.
how many jehovah's witnesses have rung your doorbell this morning?
they just rung mine's under the guise of possibly being one of my family members coming over for christmas.
No witnesses at my door today or any other day,
I live 6 blocks from the KH where I attended for over 26 years and they all know I'm a big bad apostate now so they wouldn't dare come here.
i have these signs all up and down my street.
plus a person i work next too has a display at his desk.
okay, lets face it.
I think we should see Christmas as the holiday to give gifts, put up decorations, eat a good meal with family and friends and screw all religious connections.
freetobeme, that's how I have always felt about Christmas
Merry Christmas!