Sail away. Thank you for your heart felt post. Sorry I didn't get a chance to respond sooner. You did point out something that I am beginning to feel is important. And that is not lying to miss fmf. I tend to be a very protective person of my friends and family my workmates even many witness friends. I'm the first who would stand up to protect my people from harm. That sort of backfires a bit here because I feel not being 100% truthful protects her (me too but more her). And you said how you felt a little deprived of his honesty without telling you sooner. So I needed to hear that from that perspective. Thank you for your support. You and everyone. Means a lot just knowing you are all there to listen and relate.
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Thinking of Going Full Disclosure With Wife. Sorta
by freemindfade insoliciting any and all opinions.
as some of you may know, wife is full in pioneer.
my fade has gone from us fighting.
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Thinking of Going Full Disclosure With Wife. Sorta
by freemindfade insoliciting any and all opinions.
as some of you may know, wife is full in pioneer.
my fade has gone from us fighting.
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I've managed to mostly bottle going off. Except I slipped with the family and blew it in a heated exchange.
With her this us years now, at first when we'd study and I was like the bible seems unbelievable she panicked, called in the elder and Co. That's was already years ago. So partly why I feel inclined now is I still want to make personal progress.
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Thinking of Going Full Disclosure With Wife. Sorta
by freemindfade insoliciting any and all opinions.
as some of you may know, wife is full in pioneer.
my fade has gone from us fighting.
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anthea motch
Thats where I feel I am at. Just desire to be true to myself.
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All quiet on the western front
by campaign of hate inrecently it seems very quiet in jw land.. jw broadcasting has been in full swing for months now, nobody bats an eye lid at that anymore.. so the question is, what is next?
the next organisation change, the next doctrine change.
it seems like this is the quiet before the storm.. the way things are going, it's almost like they try and one up their last change, things in jw land get that bit more crazy every year.. i'm hedging my bets toward a monthly public talk broadcast straight from new york.
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Every broadcast is turning into damage control and apostate fuel.
Abuse denial.
Money begging
abuse denial.
Think thay sums up the last three or so
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There is no God.
by nicolaou init had been raining and i could smell the pine trees nearby.
god wasn't necessary.
the clouds cleared and the sunlight blazing from above paid out a bonus in the puddles at my feet.
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Amen compaign
love the OP too. The beauty in godlessness requires really crossing the threshold into it. Then the universe and wonder of existence becomes so much bigger and fuller like jumping out of a fishbowl into the Pacific Ocean.
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Thinking of Going Full Disclosure With Wife. Sorta
by freemindfade insoliciting any and all opinions.
as some of you may know, wife is full in pioneer.
my fade has gone from us fighting.
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The loss part I am prepared for. Anyone who would walk out because of how I think, I would not be begging them to stay. Its just not me. I know the kind of person i am and I am cool with it.
That being said, I think it would be silly, but who knows what she would do.
One of my main issues is this, I have always been the social one, in the places we have lived during our marriage, I have always spearheaded our friendships if you will. Often against her pushing the opposite way, well shes a lot different person now, appreciates the friends weve gained over the years much more. But still our social life as a couple really requires both of us being dubs, partly why I just don't DA at this point. I have good friends. But If I go this route and it did lead to us staying together, but me being out, I would probably be the one to go, because I would have no social ties in the jw land any longer, and would not be making any more.
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Thinking of Going Full Disclosure With Wife. Sorta
by freemindfade insoliciting any and all opinions.
as some of you may know, wife is full in pioneer.
my fade has gone from us fighting.
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Thinking of Going Full Disclosure With Wife. Sorta
by freemindfade insoliciting any and all opinions.
as some of you may know, wife is full in pioneer.
my fade has gone from us fighting.
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*drops apostate mic and walks away*
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Thinking of Going Full Disclosure With Wife. Sorta
by freemindfade insoliciting any and all opinions.
as some of you may know, wife is full in pioneer.
my fade has gone from us fighting.
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Nitty-gritty
the only thing I am allergic to is dip shits, and you are giving me a huge rash, lets breakdown your stupidity:
Nitty-Gritty...
To quote your first article:
Studies in the United States and Britain have shown that significant proportions of sexually experienced youth wished they had waited longer to have sex for the first time, or had some other negative feelings about having started too soon.
I guess what they meant to say is what the watchtower said.
The second
The top three most common regrets in women's top five lists of regret were in descending order: Lost virginity to 'wrong' partner - 24% of women cite this as a top five regret, in contrast to only 10% of men. Then came 'Cheated on past or present partner' - 23% of women put this as a top five regret in comparison to 18% of men. Third was - 'Relationship progressed ''too fast'' sexually' - 20% of women put this as a top five regret, while this only applied to 10% of men.
Your third article:
The median age of the girls was 17, while the age of their first experience of intercourse ranged from 11 to 17 years, with a median age of 14.
Dr. Skinner says if they have sex at a young age, before they are ready, it is reflected on as an unpleasant experience which they regret and this in itself is an undesirable outcome.
Your brilliant google searching has not produced a single article that reinforces the watchtards statement that "the MAJORITY of not waiting for MARRIAGE REGRET it.
And the watchtower article doesn't specify ANYTHING. Thats the point I am making.
take the stupidity to another discussion please, this one is not about premarital sex, thanks bbye