Well I can tell you that no gay people are contributing to the 40,000,000 abortions each year...
The reason it is so disturbing is these ideas are shadows and impressions of much darker times of religion. There were times when genocide, and rape, and torture, slavery etc ruled and that is what we would be talking about (oh wait there are very religious places in the world where that still takes place!)
So here we make a big fuss about if bruce and gary can have a piece of paper that says they get to be married, where as in places in the middle east, the fuss isn't about whether or not they can have this piece of paper too, its that they should be murdered.
So don't make the sick, outdated, bigoted bad ideas from a man made desert god out to be innocent ideas. Free speech allows you to believe and say whatever you want. Don't take criticism as us saying you can't think how you like. Apologist are as intolerant of criticism as they are of gay sasquatch!