If there is anyway you can actually avoid going out and just keep turning in time. You may need to start fading.
When I first started my Uber zealous wife who is pioneer flipped out. Now I am completely inactive and attend just a few Sundays a month to be a nice guy, and she knows I don't believe any of it. It took some pain and struggle but she accepts it. Feels she over reacted initially and also I believe is become disillusioned with some aspects of the religion herself.
Express yourself more here and get support more often. It helps a lot.