LittleToe: The practical help that we offered was usually to the elderly. We knew that they, having heard the good news of the kingdom for decades, were highly unlikely to become Witnesses. We helped them because they needed help. Yes, we wanted them to become JWs but if they were never to become Witnesses we would have STILL helped them.
You say that 'SOMETIMES ( JWs ) humanity shines through' and that there are 'SOME' lovely people who remain JWs.' My CONSISTENT experience of 22 years of association with JWs in 4 congregations, tells me that MOST JWs are lovely people, and that their humanity shines through MOST OF THE TIME.