Is Jehovah a God of love?
Yes
With the word "hatred," we think of hostility, animosity, anger or contempt.
But in certain places in the Bible the word "hate" or "hatred" is not intended to communicate these ugly feelings.
eg Jacob loved Rachel more than Leah (Gen. 29:30). The next verse (Gen. 29:31) says that "The Lord saw that Leah was hated,".
Sometimes, in Biblical use, the word hate or hatred - is not intended, and does not demand hostility or contempt. It simply conveys a ranking of affection.
We are to love Christ MORE than we love our own family, and even our own self! Loving the Lord more than parents ... more than children ... more than brothers and sisters ... EVEN MORE THAN OUR OWN LIVES -- that is absolutely essential, if you want to become a disciple of Christ.
Hope this clears up the misconception.
Blessedstar