Posts by aquagirl

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HAVE SOME FUN WITH THE MAY 2007 AWAKE!

by Mary in

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ok, here's the original:.

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and here's a blank canvas for you: .

aquagirl

fantastic!!!!love the "shoulda gone to college theme"...,.

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df'd ,yet still being gunned for by the remaining elder..whats the point?

by aquagirl in

i was df'd like 15 years ago..of the three idiot elders that came to see me,only one is still alive..i just found out this past weekend,that he is still gunning for me...like he still has it in for me and uses my family "still dubs"as vehicles for this petty revenge..now what could it possibly be?

i barely even knew this loser.he was butt ugly,had a nasty personality and an ugly wife..had two nice sons tho,one of whom is df'd..id completely forgotten about him till this weekend,someone mentioned that he still bodes me ill..any one have any experiance w/childish revenging elders?like,im out of the cult,what more could they want?maybe he found out that i sold my soul for great wealth,fame and beauty??

?did i forget to tip him?ummm,what does one tip an elder these days,anyway?

aquagirl

i was df'd like 15 years ago..of the three idiot elders that came to see me,only one is still alive..i just found out this past weekend,that he is still gunning for me...like he still has it in for me and uses my family "still dubs"as vehicles for this petty revenge..now what could it possibly be? i barely even knew this loser.he was butt ugly,had a nasty personality and an ugly wife..had two nice sons tho,one of whom is df'd..id completely forgotten about him till this weekend,someone mentioned that he still bodes me ill..any one have any experiance w/childish revenging elders?like,im out of the cult,what more could they want?maybe he found out that i sold my soul for great wealth,fame and beauty???did i forget to tip him?ummm,what does one tip an elder these days,anyway?

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Need Some Advice...Thanks...

by aquagirl in

i am the primary companion and caregiver of my elderly parents,78 and 80..i am also disfellowshipped.i was baptised 2 months after i turned 12.got df'd at 31...now that my parents are really starting to need me,and i am enjoying them as people,the jws are starting the crap about them not being able to associate w/me again..its really hard to have an intelligent discussion w/a group of people whos basic recourse is "bcz the bible tells me so"...but i really want to be able to care for and enjoy my parents during these final few years that they have left..my father is stepping down as an elder bcz of the turmoil,and also cause hes just getting too old to want to deal w/it..but thats not enough for the dubs...they want total separation...anyone have any advice or tools that i might be able to use?

i know,i know,its awfully tempting to just cheerfully suggest that they kiss my butt,but this is a real issue..i have to find a smart creative way to deal w/it..i know that some of you out there are smart and creative and have dealt w/issues such as this..i need to hear from ya...like ,could i get my baptism,{at 12 yrs old] annulled?

do the dubs honor legal documents?

aquagirl

on the way out,thanks..id love to annull my baptism,but you are right..they are not ruled by "laws of men"..except when there is a benefit,like churches not having to pay taxes....another thing that the newspaper might like to know about..

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Need Some Advice...Thanks...

by aquagirl in

i am the primary companion and caregiver of my elderly parents,78 and 80..i am also disfellowshipped.i was baptised 2 months after i turned 12.got df'd at 31...now that my parents are really starting to need me,and i am enjoying them as people,the jws are starting the crap about them not being able to associate w/me again..its really hard to have an intelligent discussion w/a group of people whos basic recourse is "bcz the bible tells me so"...but i really want to be able to care for and enjoy my parents during these final few years that they have left..my father is stepping down as an elder bcz of the turmoil,and also cause hes just getting too old to want to deal w/it..but thats not enough for the dubs...they want total separation...anyone have any advice or tools that i might be able to use?

i know,i know,its awfully tempting to just cheerfully suggest that they kiss my butt,but this is a real issue..i have to find a smart creative way to deal w/it..i know that some of you out there are smart and creative and have dealt w/issues such as this..i need to hear from ya...like ,could i get my baptism,{at 12 yrs old] annulled?

do the dubs honor legal documents?

aquagirl

quandry,love it...sounds like youve been there?..its true,i do do all of those things,along with acupressure for my dads arthritus and mums calf massage for her circulation...i wonder which of them will volunteer that?

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Need Some Advice...Thanks...

by aquagirl in

i am the primary companion and caregiver of my elderly parents,78 and 80..i am also disfellowshipped.i was baptised 2 months after i turned 12.got df'd at 31...now that my parents are really starting to need me,and i am enjoying them as people,the jws are starting the crap about them not being able to associate w/me again..its really hard to have an intelligent discussion w/a group of people whos basic recourse is "bcz the bible tells me so"...but i really want to be able to care for and enjoy my parents during these final few years that they have left..my father is stepping down as an elder bcz of the turmoil,and also cause hes just getting too old to want to deal w/it..but thats not enough for the dubs...they want total separation...anyone have any advice or tools that i might be able to use?

i know,i know,its awfully tempting to just cheerfully suggest that they kiss my butt,but this is a real issue..i have to find a smart creative way to deal w/it..i know that some of you out there are smart and creative and have dealt w/issues such as this..i need to hear from ya...like ,could i get my baptism,{at 12 yrs old] annulled?

do the dubs honor legal documents?

aquagirl

ferret,thats how im gonna fight this one.the honor thy parents one..as you say,it dose not specify df'd or not..their other daughter,a devout jw,couldnt care less if they are dead or alive..seems to me that a talkin' to should be on the itenerary for her,from the elders....how long did you take care of your mum?

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Need Some Advice...Thanks...

by aquagirl in

i am the primary companion and caregiver of my elderly parents,78 and 80..i am also disfellowshipped.i was baptised 2 months after i turned 12.got df'd at 31...now that my parents are really starting to need me,and i am enjoying them as people,the jws are starting the crap about them not being able to associate w/me again..its really hard to have an intelligent discussion w/a group of people whos basic recourse is "bcz the bible tells me so"...but i really want to be able to care for and enjoy my parents during these final few years that they have left..my father is stepping down as an elder bcz of the turmoil,and also cause hes just getting too old to want to deal w/it..but thats not enough for the dubs...they want total separation...anyone have any advice or tools that i might be able to use?

i know,i know,its awfully tempting to just cheerfully suggest that they kiss my butt,but this is a real issue..i have to find a smart creative way to deal w/it..i know that some of you out there are smart and creative and have dealt w/issues such as this..i need to hear from ya...like ,could i get my baptism,{at 12 yrs old] annulled?

do the dubs honor legal documents?

aquagirl

jwdaughter..i know,youre right about the elders...moving isnt a possibility at this point,but believe me,ive thought of it...its too bad,because i really really LIKE my parents as the quirky interesting people that they are..i went grocery shopping today,and i really missed having to watch out for my mum,making sure that she didnt walk out in front of cars and like...i never had kids,so maybe its the maternal thing manifesting itself..thanks!!!!

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A companion animal was mauled to death by a pair of pit bulls today.

by Madame Quixote in

i was in the middle of a family-related meltdown when it happened.

the two stray pit bulls were in my yard as i left the house to deal with my daughter's defiance over something stupid.

i was gone for about ten minutes, and left some of her things at her boyfriend's apartment (with an eviction notice for her).. when i got back home the terriers were still in the yard, lounging around like it was their own!

aquagirl

god,i am so sorry about yer kitty...what a nightmare!!!!you do deserve a drink,and a back rub....

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Need Some Advice...Thanks...

by aquagirl in

i am the primary companion and caregiver of my elderly parents,78 and 80..i am also disfellowshipped.i was baptised 2 months after i turned 12.got df'd at 31...now that my parents are really starting to need me,and i am enjoying them as people,the jws are starting the crap about them not being able to associate w/me again..its really hard to have an intelligent discussion w/a group of people whos basic recourse is "bcz the bible tells me so"...but i really want to be able to care for and enjoy my parents during these final few years that they have left..my father is stepping down as an elder bcz of the turmoil,and also cause hes just getting too old to want to deal w/it..but thats not enough for the dubs...they want total separation...anyone have any advice or tools that i might be able to use?

i know,i know,its awfully tempting to just cheerfully suggest that they kiss my butt,but this is a real issue..i have to find a smart creative way to deal w/it..i know that some of you out there are smart and creative and have dealt w/issues such as this..i need to hear from ya...like ,could i get my baptism,{at 12 yrs old] annulled?

do the dubs honor legal documents?

aquagirl

and yes,i do think that since my folks are getting older,that the dubs want their assets..i have gotten wind of that thgru another channel actualy,and i have seen some of the dubs litter ature on it...these are evil people..and im exploring the expose to the papers thing too...hey,the way i see it,they are the same as any other brainwashing cult,maybe worse,because they are a bit more subtle..the local chain hardware store in the town near here,has a dub working there.everytime i go in theremhe hides..ive made a point a few times of asing him for some help finding things,but he always tells me to wait a sec,that he wil find someone who will help me..that seems a bit extreme..id fire someone who worked for me that did that,wouldnt you?like,if i got a complaint against tthem?..hmmmm....

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Need Some Advice...Thanks...

by aquagirl in

i am the primary companion and caregiver of my elderly parents,78 and 80..i am also disfellowshipped.i was baptised 2 months after i turned 12.got df'd at 31...now that my parents are really starting to need me,and i am enjoying them as people,the jws are starting the crap about them not being able to associate w/me again..its really hard to have an intelligent discussion w/a group of people whos basic recourse is "bcz the bible tells me so"...but i really want to be able to care for and enjoy my parents during these final few years that they have left..my father is stepping down as an elder bcz of the turmoil,and also cause hes just getting too old to want to deal w/it..but thats not enough for the dubs...they want total separation...anyone have any advice or tools that i might be able to use?

i know,i know,its awfully tempting to just cheerfully suggest that they kiss my butt,but this is a real issue..i have to find a smart creative way to deal w/it..i know that some of you out there are smart and creative and have dealt w/issues such as this..i need to hear from ya...like ,could i get my baptism,{at 12 yrs old] annulled?

do the dubs honor legal documents?

aquagirl

yeah,i actualy talked to my lawyer,who is also a friend about this,and all i can do is keep them away from me.unless my parents complain,and hohoba wouldnt let them do that..but its a good idea,thanks!!!!!

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Need Some Advice...Thanks...

by aquagirl in

i am the primary companion and caregiver of my elderly parents,78 and 80..i am also disfellowshipped.i was baptised 2 months after i turned 12.got df'd at 31...now that my parents are really starting to need me,and i am enjoying them as people,the jws are starting the crap about them not being able to associate w/me again..its really hard to have an intelligent discussion w/a group of people whos basic recourse is "bcz the bible tells me so"...but i really want to be able to care for and enjoy my parents during these final few years that they have left..my father is stepping down as an elder bcz of the turmoil,and also cause hes just getting too old to want to deal w/it..but thats not enough for the dubs...they want total separation...anyone have any advice or tools that i might be able to use?

i know,i know,its awfully tempting to just cheerfully suggest that they kiss my butt,but this is a real issue..i have to find a smart creative way to deal w/it..i know that some of you out there are smart and creative and have dealt w/issues such as this..i need to hear from ya...like ,could i get my baptism,{at 12 yrs old] annulled?

do the dubs honor legal documents?

aquagirl

wow..thanks for all of the excellent ideas on the pms...i knew i could get some ideas here....