I hesitate to be serious here, BUT:
The one thing that immediately comes to mind about this is that elders had very specific definitions of what was/wasn't an act of porneia (in the Flock book, for example), which the "average" congregation member were totally ignorant of.....so in case after case, many folks learned to their total shock that they'd "gone over the line" (of WTBTS rules) without realizing it.
Sort of like getting a ticket from a cop that tells you about a speed limit that's not posted. Absurd to say the least.
Sadly, for me, just another example of outrageous stuff I participated in as an elder. I recall being "bothered" about this, but my dubbie-trained brain justified things by the 'ol "Mother Knows Best"....
---Dan